Wednesday, September 21, 2011

How to get guys to like me?

im 13 about to go into 8th grade i will in a few days and iv never had a boyfriend people say im not fat but i think i am i weigh 110lbs and in 5'0 brown hair but guys are always mean too me and dont wanna go out with me what is wrong with me and what do i need to change i think if i lose 30 lbs they will like me but im not sure please help meHow to get guys to like me?
are you crazy 110 is nothing whats wrong with u then u will be 80 and that is not good !!! just be ur self and if no one like you the forget them u shouldnt have to change just to get guys to like you !!!!How to get guys to like me?
well to start with you shouldn't lose weight just to get guys to like you, if you're gonna do it then do it for yourself :) ive always found people at school annoying because you see them all the time and theres loads of gossip everywhere so why don't you start going to a club or something and meet loads of new people? then you can have a fresh start and be whoever you want to be :)
some people have all the luck, right? well, abb, though it may seem that the prettier girls and great looking guys have it made, without a care in the world, untroubled by the woes of having to really earn anything or struggle for acceptance, I want you to know that most of them, and I know this from experience- will not make it out there in the real world. they will be unprepared for the realities of life. in the grownup world where they are going, no one gives a big poopie how popular they were in school, or really how good they look, unless they just want to use that person for their own personal things.

I said all that to say this: if you want to lose some weight, and you think it will make you feel better, then work out and lose it. but if you lose that weight just to get more attention, or do it for anyone else other than yourself, you're really selling out the most important person in yer life: YOU. if people can't love you for who you are, and choose NOT to based on your looks, they are fake and cheap. and tho it may take time for this to seem real to you, you will be stronger than all of them put together if you just remain true to yourself. you arew fine just the way you are, even if it doesn't seem like it now. personal improvement is fine- but do it for the right reasons, not as a pandering gesture to get others to like you. I wish you well.

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