I changed my password but when i typed my new password its saying incorrect and its not accepting my old. My user account is the admin and I can only get in now as guest. how can I get i recover it. i noticed when i was changing it at first it was saying I couldn't change it so I cancelled it and thought my old password would still be in use but now i cant get in. I have all my personal pictures and files in there and need to get them back.How can I recover my password on vista?
Usually, we can Reset Windows Password in two ways:
The first is to change Windows password with another administrator account,but you say you now only can get in as guest so the first way can be weeded out.
The second is to reset the admin password with the Windows Password Recovery tool that you can download it on another computen which can connect to internet.
here is the guide:
1 . You must free download Windows Password Recovery 6.0 in website:
http://www.recoverlostpassword.com/products/windowspasswordrecoery.html
2 . Burn the image file onto an blank CD/DVD or usb flash with the burner freely supported by Windows Password Recovery
3 . Insert the CD and reset your password follow step-by-step operation.
hope this help you
good luck!How can I recover my password on vista?
u would have to download oph live cd . U can google it and find the link to their website. Then u will download the iso and have to burn the iso onto a cd and boot ur pc from the cd. it will show a screen with all the user accounts and there passwords..
This happened to me before. i just reinstalled windows without formating the harddisk.
this keeps your files and gets around annoying passwords.
that has happened to me too.several times.sorry,but youll have to open a new acount.you cannot change your password simply as you forgot it!
The first thing which you check if you forget login password. When we install Windows, it automatically creates an account ';Administrator'; and sets its password to blank. So if you have forget Your user account password then try this:
Start system and when you See Windows Welcome screen / Login screen, press ctrl+alt+del keys Twice and it'll show Classic Login box. Now type ';Administrator'; (without quotes) in Username and leave Password field blank. Now press Enter and you should be able to log in Windows.
Now you can reset your account password from ';Control Panel -%26gt; User Accounts';.
Same thing can be done using Safe Mode. In Safe Mode Windows will show this in-built Administrator account in Login screen.
Wednesday, September 21, 2011
How I do I talk my mom out of taking the internet off?
My mom thinks all I do is play on it and I do no work. I only do that when I have no school work. I gave her a bit of attitude, but thats who I am! I give everyone attitude, and she shouldn't try to change me. I have lots of friends online and I got a few foopets ( http://www.foopets.com) which need fed/watered/played with everyday, I've gotten so attached I cant stand the thought of leaving them!
I tried to bribe my way out, by saying I would do all my homework first then play on the comp for a few mins but she says ';I dont care I've made up my mind';. I've heard that a dozen times....but right now I dont know if its true.
How?? Give me good ideas!How I do I talk my mom out of taking the internet off?
Hey guy, You make your daily work time table and in this time table you give some tome for internet activity. I think you must have done any thing wrong and your mom knew it. If you do this you haven't problem from your mother...How I do I talk my mom out of taking the internet off?
lol shes your mom nothing you can do, and I agree with her ';she shouldnt try to change me'; youve got a problem dude.
the fact that you say thats just who you are is NO excuse in my book. she will always be your mom and the more you have attitudes with people, the more you'll find yourself unable to be given favors by most people who are in your life. so lose the attitude, think before you speak and act and be MORE respect to your mother. If she cuts the internet off, you'll just have to work harder to gain her trust back and she may give it back to you. but for some reason, she doesn't trust you enough to have it on. That's something you have to talk to her about without getting heated.
Sit your mother down and explain to her that you really like the internet and thats when you are in contact with your friends most of the time becuase its easier to see them that way. tell her you've always been smart about doing homework first and have never put it aside for something. tell her if she takes it away, you'll be bored. if she sees that you're sincere and that you really want it on, she may reconsider. (shouldn't have to bribe her with homework, you're suppose to do it anyway.)
say that i get great knowledge from internet.. i can learn lots of good things from internet
you must have done something bad. Not having internet is like not having electricity and your mom has a reason. She's probably watching your browsing history.
You say you give everyone attitude and that is just you, however she is your mother and deserves respect. She provides for you and gave you birth. You should apologize to her....and not just so you can get the Internet but sincerely because you were disrespectful. You wonder why she has made up her mind, I am betting the disrespect is her reason. You need to stop the ';that's just me'; excuses and start treating her like a human being. Start there.healthy hair cable tv to computer monitor
I tried to bribe my way out, by saying I would do all my homework first then play on the comp for a few mins but she says ';I dont care I've made up my mind';. I've heard that a dozen times....but right now I dont know if its true.
How?? Give me good ideas!How I do I talk my mom out of taking the internet off?
Hey guy, You make your daily work time table and in this time table you give some tome for internet activity. I think you must have done any thing wrong and your mom knew it. If you do this you haven't problem from your mother...How I do I talk my mom out of taking the internet off?
lol shes your mom nothing you can do, and I agree with her ';she shouldnt try to change me'; youve got a problem dude.
the fact that you say thats just who you are is NO excuse in my book. she will always be your mom and the more you have attitudes with people, the more you'll find yourself unable to be given favors by most people who are in your life. so lose the attitude, think before you speak and act and be MORE respect to your mother. If she cuts the internet off, you'll just have to work harder to gain her trust back and she may give it back to you. but for some reason, she doesn't trust you enough to have it on. That's something you have to talk to her about without getting heated.
Sit your mother down and explain to her that you really like the internet and thats when you are in contact with your friends most of the time becuase its easier to see them that way. tell her you've always been smart about doing homework first and have never put it aside for something. tell her if she takes it away, you'll be bored. if she sees that you're sincere and that you really want it on, she may reconsider. (shouldn't have to bribe her with homework, you're suppose to do it anyway.)
say that i get great knowledge from internet.. i can learn lots of good things from internet
you must have done something bad. Not having internet is like not having electricity and your mom has a reason. She's probably watching your browsing history.
You say you give everyone attitude and that is just you, however she is your mother and deserves respect. She provides for you and gave you birth. You should apologize to her....and not just so you can get the Internet but sincerely because you were disrespectful. You wonder why she has made up her mind, I am betting the disrespect is her reason. You need to stop the ';that's just me'; excuses and start treating her like a human being. Start there.
How do I resolve anger issues?
I'm really mad about a few things and it's the same things over and over that I get angry about and I don't know how I can get the anger away. It's pointless to get angry because nothing is going to change, but the anger is still there. What can I do to put these issues to rest for good?How do I resolve anger issues?
I had the same problem a few years ago and I decided that I needed help, i.e. Anger Management. So that's exactly what I did. I couldn't ';fix it'; so I sought out a professional and through cognitive therapy we worked it all out. I felt SO relieved and like tons of weights were lifted off my shoulders and my heart as well. I couldn't have done it without the help I got.
Therapy is not for everyone and you have to WANT it to work.
GOOD LUCK!! :)How do I resolve anger issues?
do something you in joy to do. like listening to music or draw. but if you saying its pointless to get angry. why not let it go like nothing happened? ignore it. me i can get angry fast but i learned to just ignore it if its that pointless. some times i take a deep breath.ill maybe find something else to do instead of being somewhere being angry.
Don't internalize it, but obviously don't take it out on other people. Pausing to breathe and calm yourself down could help, but so could therapy if your anger is severe enough.
Please understand that when you get mad you are allowing someone else to be in control of your mental status. This means that any poop you run into could be in control of your person simply by your getting mad at them or their behavior. Get out of a take offense mode... refuse to take offense...if you are in a childish take offense mode you can take offense even when none is given, even when none is intended...this is childish...grow up. If you get out of a take offense mode, you will not get mad even if someone intends to be offensive to you. Then you are free as a bird. Good luck!
Meditation can help you overcome your anger issues as it helps to calm the mind and balance the body. Looking back on it now I noticed in my own experiences with my anger is that when I felt like I was being attacked I had to attack back, I also noticed that every time I reacted in anger, my body and my mind was out of whack I was not as focused as I should have been but through Meditation I have been able to keep my body in balance and I do not respond with anger anymore.
I had the same problem a few years ago and I decided that I needed help, i.e. Anger Management. So that's exactly what I did. I couldn't ';fix it'; so I sought out a professional and through cognitive therapy we worked it all out. I felt SO relieved and like tons of weights were lifted off my shoulders and my heart as well. I couldn't have done it without the help I got.
Therapy is not for everyone and you have to WANT it to work.
GOOD LUCK!! :)How do I resolve anger issues?
do something you in joy to do. like listening to music or draw. but if you saying its pointless to get angry. why not let it go like nothing happened? ignore it. me i can get angry fast but i learned to just ignore it if its that pointless. some times i take a deep breath.ill maybe find something else to do instead of being somewhere being angry.
Don't internalize it, but obviously don't take it out on other people. Pausing to breathe and calm yourself down could help, but so could therapy if your anger is severe enough.
Please understand that when you get mad you are allowing someone else to be in control of your mental status. This means that any poop you run into could be in control of your person simply by your getting mad at them or their behavior. Get out of a take offense mode... refuse to take offense...if you are in a childish take offense mode you can take offense even when none is given, even when none is intended...this is childish...grow up. If you get out of a take offense mode, you will not get mad even if someone intends to be offensive to you. Then you are free as a bird. Good luck!
Meditation can help you overcome your anger issues as it helps to calm the mind and balance the body. Looking back on it now I noticed in my own experiences with my anger is that when I felt like I was being attacked I had to attack back, I also noticed that every time I reacted in anger, my body and my mind was out of whack I was not as focused as I should have been but through Meditation I have been able to keep my body in balance and I do not respond with anger anymore.
How do I talk dirty to a girl?
This girl I'm talking to keeps trying to steer the conversation in a ';naughty'; direction, but always get nervous and change the subject because I don't know what to say. I really don't want to say something that's unsmooth and unsexy. What am I supposed to say? What do girls like to hear?How do I talk dirty to a girl?
Compliments...follow her lead...
asnwermine?http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;How do I talk dirty to a girl?
so your saying shes horny ?
well if yaa wanna talk perverted, just talk like your tryin to get in her pants i guess
be like ';so how about sex tonight?';
LOL
Don't do dirty talk. Think of something nicer.
compliments and follow her pace %26lt;3 best of luckk!
she wants to hear the same things you'd wanna hear. Avoid anything cheesy or too cliche cuz thats a turn off, just be honest and tell her what you would like to do to her, talk about how hott she is and how much you want her...compliments get you everywhere, even if they are stupid. Everyone wants to feel wanted.
Compliments...follow her lead...
asnwermine?http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;How do I talk dirty to a girl?
so your saying shes horny ?
well if yaa wanna talk perverted, just talk like your tryin to get in her pants i guess
be like ';so how about sex tonight?';
LOL
Don't do dirty talk. Think of something nicer.
compliments and follow her pace %26lt;3 best of luckk!
she wants to hear the same things you'd wanna hear. Avoid anything cheesy or too cliche cuz thats a turn off, just be honest and tell her what you would like to do to her, talk about how hott she is and how much you want her...compliments get you everywhere, even if they are stupid. Everyone wants to feel wanted.
How do i take out a captive bead?
I have a helix and i am about to change it out except i cant get the bead out,the assholes at my shop wont take it out for me and i dont want to tear my earHow do i take out a captive bead?
yes do that
yes do that
How to get guys to like me?
im 13 about to go into 8th grade i will in a few days and iv never had a boyfriend people say im not fat but i think i am i weigh 110lbs and in 5'0 brown hair but guys are always mean too me and dont wanna go out with me what is wrong with me and what do i need to change i think if i lose 30 lbs they will like me but im not sure please help meHow to get guys to like me?
are you crazy 110 is nothing whats wrong with u then u will be 80 and that is not good !!! just be ur self and if no one like you the forget them u shouldnt have to change just to get guys to like you !!!!How to get guys to like me?
well to start with you shouldn't lose weight just to get guys to like you, if you're gonna do it then do it for yourself :) ive always found people at school annoying because you see them all the time and theres loads of gossip everywhere so why don't you start going to a club or something and meet loads of new people? then you can have a fresh start and be whoever you want to be :)
some people have all the luck, right? well, abb, though it may seem that the prettier girls and great looking guys have it made, without a care in the world, untroubled by the woes of having to really earn anything or struggle for acceptance, I want you to know that most of them, and I know this from experience- will not make it out there in the real world. they will be unprepared for the realities of life. in the grownup world where they are going, no one gives a big poopie how popular they were in school, or really how good they look, unless they just want to use that person for their own personal things.
I said all that to say this: if you want to lose some weight, and you think it will make you feel better, then work out and lose it. but if you lose that weight just to get more attention, or do it for anyone else other than yourself, you're really selling out the most important person in yer life: YOU. if people can't love you for who you are, and choose NOT to based on your looks, they are fake and cheap. and tho it may take time for this to seem real to you, you will be stronger than all of them put together if you just remain true to yourself. you arew fine just the way you are, even if it doesn't seem like it now. personal improvement is fine- but do it for the right reasons, not as a pandering gesture to get others to like you. I wish you well.
are you crazy 110 is nothing whats wrong with u then u will be 80 and that is not good !!! just be ur self and if no one like you the forget them u shouldnt have to change just to get guys to like you !!!!How to get guys to like me?
well to start with you shouldn't lose weight just to get guys to like you, if you're gonna do it then do it for yourself :) ive always found people at school annoying because you see them all the time and theres loads of gossip everywhere so why don't you start going to a club or something and meet loads of new people? then you can have a fresh start and be whoever you want to be :)
some people have all the luck, right? well, abb, though it may seem that the prettier girls and great looking guys have it made, without a care in the world, untroubled by the woes of having to really earn anything or struggle for acceptance, I want you to know that most of them, and I know this from experience- will not make it out there in the real world. they will be unprepared for the realities of life. in the grownup world where they are going, no one gives a big poopie how popular they were in school, or really how good they look, unless they just want to use that person for their own personal things.
I said all that to say this: if you want to lose some weight, and you think it will make you feel better, then work out and lose it. but if you lose that weight just to get more attention, or do it for anyone else other than yourself, you're really selling out the most important person in yer life: YOU. if people can't love you for who you are, and choose NOT to based on your looks, they are fake and cheap. and tho it may take time for this to seem real to you, you will be stronger than all of them put together if you just remain true to yourself. you arew fine just the way you are, even if it doesn't seem like it now. personal improvement is fine- but do it for the right reasons, not as a pandering gesture to get others to like you. I wish you well.
How do I set a ringtone on my Pantech Impact P7000?
I recently got the Pantech Impact P7000 and i don't know how to change the ringtone. Other sites have said to go to menu, click my stuff, scroll to desired folder, scroll to desired ringtone, and then click options, set as ringtone. When I do this, It won't let me choose set as ringtone. any tips?How do I set a ringtone on my Pantech Impact P7000?
http://www.myventones.com
try this site. its 100% free and you can make any ringtone you want and they will text it to you.
you won't need to scroll to your menu or anyhting because they can text it inside a text message
so once the ringtone opens , you'll be able to set it directly as a ringtone.
http://www.myventones.com
try this site. its 100% free and you can make any ringtone you want and they will text it to you.
you won't need to scroll to your menu or anyhting because they can text it inside a text message
so once the ringtone opens , you'll be able to set it directly as a ringtone.
How to get a name change?
Does anyone knows what proper documentation you will need to have a name change for a minor living in south florida don't want a lawyer to handle it they want to do it themselves. Can you get the forms online? Both parents agree to have the change.delegates fake myspace
How can you exercise your cat?
My cat's gotten overweight so I want him to lose it and be down to a healthy weight. I've already changed how much food he's eating gradually and his weight has gone down some. What I think he needs is exercise to get the rest down. What are some ways that I can get him to exercise?How can you exercise your cat?
Laser pointer. Doesn't require much of a workout for yourself either. Just a flip of the wrist.
Hang a toy by a string in a doorway just out of reach of the cat requiring them to jump to reach it. If they have claws try to have it be something that they can not hook on to very well.How can you exercise your cat?
We would get one of those laser pointer thing.
We have one and our cats chase it like crazy.
Hope this helps
When I get the laser pointer out, my sister's cat will chase after it like mad. My cat, on the other hand, looks at me like I'm stupid. It is also difficult to get her to go after toys, so what we ended up doing was going on walks. I put her on a leash and take her for a walk in the woods behind my house. For some reason she is a lot more willing to let me lead when we are in the woods (rather than in our yard, for example).
Laser pointer. Doesn't require much of a workout for yourself either. Just a flip of the wrist.
Hang a toy by a string in a doorway just out of reach of the cat requiring them to jump to reach it. If they have claws try to have it be something that they can not hook on to very well.How can you exercise your cat?
We would get one of those laser pointer thing.
We have one and our cats chase it like crazy.
Hope this helps
When I get the laser pointer out, my sister's cat will chase after it like mad. My cat, on the other hand, looks at me like I'm stupid. It is also difficult to get her to go after toys, so what we ended up doing was going on walks. I put her on a leash and take her for a walk in the woods behind my house. For some reason she is a lot more willing to let me lead when we are in the woods (rather than in our yard, for example).
How many quarts of transmission fluid for a 98 eclipse?
i want to change the tranny fluid in my 98 eclipse, i understand the bell housing holds fluid i cannot get, but how many quarts should i need thxHow many quarts of transmission fluid for a 98 eclipse?
the bell housing don,t hold nothing. it,s the torque converter is what holds the most. i would say if your going to drain most of the fluid out of the converter then pick up about 7 or 8 quarts. if you put your car on ramps then some of the fluid will drain out of the torque converter.How many quarts of transmission fluid for a 98 eclipse?
its in the manuel
the bell housing don,t hold nothing. it,s the torque converter is what holds the most. i would say if your going to drain most of the fluid out of the converter then pick up about 7 or 8 quarts. if you put your car on ramps then some of the fluid will drain out of the torque converter.How many quarts of transmission fluid for a 98 eclipse?
its in the manuel
How do i block someone from call my home phone.........I have roger?
My ex won't quit calling me %26amp; I don't know how to get ride of him.........I already change my cell phone number and i really don't wanna change my home phone had that number over 10yrs and it's link to several important places........please help! how do i block his number from calling me i have RogerHow do i block someone from call my home phone.........I have roger?
Look in calling features in the front of the local phone bookHow do i block someone from call my home phone.........I have roger?
Call your customer support (1-888-ROGERS1 (764-3771))and explain you want to block a specific person from calling you, because they are harassing you. In these types of cases, they'd be more than willing to assist you.
However, if they cannot do that, or if they can but your ex starts to use another phone, you have no choice but to change your number, for above reason. MAKE SURE THAT WHEN YOU DO THIS, YOU REQUEST THAT THE NEW # BE ';UNLISTED';. I CANNOT STRESS THIS ENOUGH.
Basically, ';unlisted'; means that your new number will never be published in any of the world's paper or e-phonebook databases. That makes it even difficult for your ex to reach you, because he will have no way of finding your new number. This is especially effective if your ex keeps calling using different phone lines. This simple procedure ensures that he will never call you again!
Look in calling features in the front of the local phone bookHow do i block someone from call my home phone.........I have roger?
Call your customer support (1-888-ROGERS1 (764-3771))and explain you want to block a specific person from calling you, because they are harassing you. In these types of cases, they'd be more than willing to assist you.
However, if they cannot do that, or if they can but your ex starts to use another phone, you have no choice but to change your number, for above reason. MAKE SURE THAT WHEN YOU DO THIS, YOU REQUEST THAT THE NEW # BE ';UNLISTED';. I CANNOT STRESS THIS ENOUGH.
Basically, ';unlisted'; means that your new number will never be published in any of the world's paper or e-phonebook databases. That makes it even difficult for your ex to reach you, because he will have no way of finding your new number. This is especially effective if your ex keeps calling using different phone lines. This simple procedure ensures that he will never call you again!
Im on birth control and i dont want to be.. how can i get out of it?
So i had sex and my mom made me go on birth control even tho we found out i was not pregnant. i just started my period so i have to start the pill.. i dont want to be on the pill because im scared that im going to miss a day and i dont want any changes going on with my body. i dont plan on having sex any time soon. What do i do?Im on birth control and i dont want to be.. how can i get out of it?
It should ultimately be up to you. Have you tried talking to your mom about it? Explain that you don't intend to be sexually active and that you are worried about side effects like weight gain, mood swings, etc. Also, call the doctor that prescribed your birth control and ask him to speak to your mom.
If your main concern is missing a pill, try setting an alarm (cell phone alarms work best, you can set it to go off at the same time every day) or put the pills by your tooth brush or something you do around the same time every day. In my experience, and most of the young women I know, birth control has not caused major changes or side effects. There are benefits- it can help acne, regulate your period, and reduce cramps. Just some things to consider. Of course you are in charge of when you have sex, but if you ever do get caught up in the moment you'll want to have some protection.Im on birth control and i dont want to be.. how can i get out of it?
don't take it?
Talk to your doctor about it and tell him you don't want to be on the pill. It is your decision what birth control you use, not your mum's, and your doctor won't tell your mum you have come off the pill without your consent.
birth control is really good for your period though. it regulates it, and you'll get it the exact same day every month. it also helps acne, cramps, and heavy flows. if you think you can get passed missing them (it is okay if you miss one or two a month as long as you take them asap and they aren't one after the other). you should never have unprotected sex you made a gamble. you never know when you'll do it again, so at least you will have a back-up method. why don't you try it first? if you don't like it you can just go off it, but you'll have spotting and your period might be late.
don't screw around and you have nothing to worry about.
stop taking it or talk to your doctor about other options
stop. plain and simple, hide the pills or give them to a friend who is having sex. trust me though. you may not plan on sex, but if you dont want the bc, keep condoms on your persons just in case. $3 condoms are cheaper than the hospital bills alone.
just rinse the pills down the sink each day so our mom doesn't know.
and if you decide to have sex again, just use a condo,m.
good luck!
It should ultimately be up to you. Have you tried talking to your mom about it? Explain that you don't intend to be sexually active and that you are worried about side effects like weight gain, mood swings, etc. Also, call the doctor that prescribed your birth control and ask him to speak to your mom.
If your main concern is missing a pill, try setting an alarm (cell phone alarms work best, you can set it to go off at the same time every day) or put the pills by your tooth brush or something you do around the same time every day. In my experience, and most of the young women I know, birth control has not caused major changes or side effects. There are benefits- it can help acne, regulate your period, and reduce cramps. Just some things to consider. Of course you are in charge of when you have sex, but if you ever do get caught up in the moment you'll want to have some protection.Im on birth control and i dont want to be.. how can i get out of it?
don't take it?
Talk to your doctor about it and tell him you don't want to be on the pill. It is your decision what birth control you use, not your mum's, and your doctor won't tell your mum you have come off the pill without your consent.
birth control is really good for your period though. it regulates it, and you'll get it the exact same day every month. it also helps acne, cramps, and heavy flows. if you think you can get passed missing them (it is okay if you miss one or two a month as long as you take them asap and they aren't one after the other). you should never have unprotected sex you made a gamble. you never know when you'll do it again, so at least you will have a back-up method. why don't you try it first? if you don't like it you can just go off it, but you'll have spotting and your period might be late.
don't screw around and you have nothing to worry about.
stop taking it or talk to your doctor about other options
stop. plain and simple, hide the pills or give them to a friend who is having sex. trust me though. you may not plan on sex, but if you dont want the bc, keep condoms on your persons just in case. $3 condoms are cheaper than the hospital bills alone.
just rinse the pills down the sink each day so our mom doesn't know.
and if you decide to have sex again, just use a condo,m.
good luck!
How to make my dodge ram 1500 rear suspension able to handle a heavy trailer?
I got a 2005 dodge ram 1500 5.9ltr hemi 20'; wheels need to beef up suspension maybe change wheels to be able to haul a 14'loaded dump trailer for work new truck is not an option at this time how can it handle a bigger load new springs?tires etc.?need adviceHow to make my dodge ram 1500 rear suspension able to handle a heavy trailer?
Custom wheels aren't able to handle heavy loads. You will have to go back to steel wheels with truck tires. You can add air shocks or helper springs to the back. You can't really increase the stock load rating, because things like the axles and transmission, etc. all tie into it.How to make my dodge ram 1500 rear suspension able to handle a heavy trailer?
The maximum tongue weight rating for the hitch is 500 pounds. If you beef up the suspension, you will need to get a load distributing hitch to be able to handle the larger trailer.
first off you have to go with the stock steel rims you can get bigger leaf springs and when i say bigger i mean you can get them custom with more leaks and a stronger bow also helpers overloads stronger shocks or maybe a stronger rear end as in a 3200 or 4400 series
i have a 1994 ram 2500 with custom leafs over loads hd shocks and a 4400 rear end
Custom wheels aren't able to handle heavy loads. You will have to go back to steel wheels with truck tires. You can add air shocks or helper springs to the back. You can't really increase the stock load rating, because things like the axles and transmission, etc. all tie into it.How to make my dodge ram 1500 rear suspension able to handle a heavy trailer?
The maximum tongue weight rating for the hitch is 500 pounds. If you beef up the suspension, you will need to get a load distributing hitch to be able to handle the larger trailer.
first off you have to go with the stock steel rims you can get bigger leaf springs and when i say bigger i mean you can get them custom with more leaks and a stronger bow also helpers overloads stronger shocks or maybe a stronger rear end as in a 3200 or 4400 series
i have a 1994 ram 2500 with custom leafs over loads hd shocks and a 4400 rear end
Climate change for my birthday! How sad is that! ... anyway, what do you think of these presents?
OMG now my friends and family are buying me climate change items as gifts! I have to confess, I was delighted to receive them. I really must give this work/life balance thing another look!
Anyway, I am too busy to read/view them at the moment so they are going on the back-burner for now.
In the mean time, I was wondering if anyone had seen them and could give me an idea of what I have to look forward to. The items are:
Book: Why We Disagree About Climate Change; Mike Hulme, Cambridge University Press,
DVD: The Truth About Climate Change; David Attenborough, BBC / Open University,
DVD: The Age Of Stupid; Spanner Films
If you are familiar with any of these, what did you think?
What have I got in store?Climate change for my birthday! How sad is that! ... anyway, what do you think of these presents?
Happy B-day!
And yes that truly is sad. I know you think this is important, but you should not let it consume your life. Try actually living. Have some fun.
Dana,
I have a wife and a child. I care about them. Your ';climate science';; your ';0.74 degree change that is going to kill us all';; it really does not hit high on my priority scale. As for learning, I spend time looking into issues, I would not buy a biased book with a biased viewpoint and consider myself educated on the subject.
It does make me happy to know that while I am busy raising my children, you will be busy trying to change the world. Once you die, my children will change it all back, because I'll teach them the value of freedom.
Dana,
Instead I'll have the conversation. ';Dad, why after being willing to serve in the military and give your life, were you so willing to allow idiots scare the public with barely any change at all, so they could rationalize a power grab and grow the government into a communist-like regime? Didn't you think I would like freedom too?'; The Dana answer would be ';Nope I was to full of myself and so happy pretending to be holier and smarter than everyone to actually see what was going on. Now we are living in destitude, reliant on the gov't, reliving history again, just like we saw in Greece and the USSR. ';
Luckily though Dana,
I can't see you with a child. Here is a hint, talk of climate change doesn't really woe most women.
JimZ,
I like the Lowe's gift cards. Seriously is climate change all these people talk about to get gifts like this? Its like they are so afraid of overpopulation, they have created another form of birth control.Climate change for my birthday! How sad is that! ... anyway, what do you think of these presents?
If you get a gift card, go get ';The deniers'; by lawrence solomon.
I always get a card or a shirt or if I am lucky, a Starbucks card. I very much like Attenborough and think he is an honest guy who makes quality shows. I don't think I have seen it but am skeptical about his show anyway but hey I am a skeptic. If I got a climate change book, it might make me stop and wonder, ';geesh I am taking this all to seriously.';
Happy B Day
i saw the age of stupid when it was free online for one day a few weeks ago. i cried, lots, but that's me.
anything by attenbro' is bound to be excellent.
i got a goat for christmas*! i would have preferred a composting toilet, not too sure a goat or rather its many offspring wont end up part of the problem, but hey, my nieces are so cool.
happy birthday :-)
*or rather an african lady got a goat from me.
Haven't read/seen/owned any of those, so can't be of much help there. Have a good birthday in any case.
';If I got a climate change book, it might make me stop and wonder, 'geesh I am taking this all to seriously.'';
This is strange reasoning. I enjoy reading about climate change and atmospheric science in general in my free time as well. Same with physics, math, and some chemistry. I received a book on time series analysis and another on the evolution of the biosphere for my b-day several months ago. I've downloaded hundreds of papers on topics ranging from D-O events to the resolution of SR with absolute simultaneity in QM, not because I take these topics ';too seriously';, but because they fascinate me. The fact that I can then make a more informed decision on things like climate change doesn't hurt either.
Don't get me wrong -- I like to get a gift card to Home Depot or Bass Pros or REI too, but I don't wonder about my sanity if I unwrap a new book on Cloud-Resolving Modeling either.
Happy birthday!
I'm not familiar with those books and films in particular. For my birthday I did recently get a book by Gavin Schmidt and another by Joe Romm on the subject. I also asked for Hansen's new book, but didn't get that one.
*edit* personally I enjoy learning about climate science. I guess CO2 expeller doesn't feel the same way. Maybe I'm a bit of a geek, but climate science fascinates me.
*edit* I find it ironic that a person wouldn't be interested in spending time learning about climate science *because* he has a child. If you're a denier and you're wrong (which you are), you're actively engaging in making your child's future life more difficult. You're refusing to try and solve the problem because you don't even understand that global warming isn't linear, in Expeller's case. But I guess when faced with such a disturbing reality, denial is almost an understandable reaction.
I can just picture the conversation 30 years from now. 'Dad, why didn't you do more to prevent climate change?' 'Well kiddo, you see I thought I knew more about climate science than the world's climate scientists. It seems pretty stupid in retrospect, considering that I didn't even take the time to learn basic stuff like what the various known feedbacks were. Sorry about that'.
*edit* I happen to be married, Expeller. 5-year anniversary in a couple weeks, in fact. Though we don't have kids and don't plan on having any.
Anyway, I am too busy to read/view them at the moment so they are going on the back-burner for now.
In the mean time, I was wondering if anyone had seen them and could give me an idea of what I have to look forward to. The items are:
Book: Why We Disagree About Climate Change; Mike Hulme, Cambridge University Press,
DVD: The Truth About Climate Change; David Attenborough, BBC / Open University,
DVD: The Age Of Stupid; Spanner Films
If you are familiar with any of these, what did you think?
What have I got in store?Climate change for my birthday! How sad is that! ... anyway, what do you think of these presents?
Happy B-day!
And yes that truly is sad. I know you think this is important, but you should not let it consume your life. Try actually living. Have some fun.
Dana,
I have a wife and a child. I care about them. Your ';climate science';; your ';0.74 degree change that is going to kill us all';; it really does not hit high on my priority scale. As for learning, I spend time looking into issues, I would not buy a biased book with a biased viewpoint and consider myself educated on the subject.
It does make me happy to know that while I am busy raising my children, you will be busy trying to change the world. Once you die, my children will change it all back, because I'll teach them the value of freedom.
Dana,
Instead I'll have the conversation. ';Dad, why after being willing to serve in the military and give your life, were you so willing to allow idiots scare the public with barely any change at all, so they could rationalize a power grab and grow the government into a communist-like regime? Didn't you think I would like freedom too?'; The Dana answer would be ';Nope I was to full of myself and so happy pretending to be holier and smarter than everyone to actually see what was going on. Now we are living in destitude, reliant on the gov't, reliving history again, just like we saw in Greece and the USSR. ';
Luckily though Dana,
I can't see you with a child. Here is a hint, talk of climate change doesn't really woe most women.
JimZ,
I like the Lowe's gift cards. Seriously is climate change all these people talk about to get gifts like this? Its like they are so afraid of overpopulation, they have created another form of birth control.Climate change for my birthday! How sad is that! ... anyway, what do you think of these presents?
If you get a gift card, go get ';The deniers'; by lawrence solomon.
I always get a card or a shirt or if I am lucky, a Starbucks card. I very much like Attenborough and think he is an honest guy who makes quality shows. I don't think I have seen it but am skeptical about his show anyway but hey I am a skeptic. If I got a climate change book, it might make me stop and wonder, ';geesh I am taking this all to seriously.';
Happy B Day
i saw the age of stupid when it was free online for one day a few weeks ago. i cried, lots, but that's me.
anything by attenbro' is bound to be excellent.
i got a goat for christmas*! i would have preferred a composting toilet, not too sure a goat or rather its many offspring wont end up part of the problem, but hey, my nieces are so cool.
happy birthday :-)
*or rather an african lady got a goat from me.
Haven't read/seen/owned any of those, so can't be of much help there. Have a good birthday in any case.
';If I got a climate change book, it might make me stop and wonder, 'geesh I am taking this all to seriously.'';
This is strange reasoning. I enjoy reading about climate change and atmospheric science in general in my free time as well. Same with physics, math, and some chemistry. I received a book on time series analysis and another on the evolution of the biosphere for my b-day several months ago. I've downloaded hundreds of papers on topics ranging from D-O events to the resolution of SR with absolute simultaneity in QM, not because I take these topics ';too seriously';, but because they fascinate me. The fact that I can then make a more informed decision on things like climate change doesn't hurt either.
Don't get me wrong -- I like to get a gift card to Home Depot or Bass Pros or REI too, but I don't wonder about my sanity if I unwrap a new book on Cloud-Resolving Modeling either.
Happy birthday!
I'm not familiar with those books and films in particular. For my birthday I did recently get a book by Gavin Schmidt and another by Joe Romm on the subject. I also asked for Hansen's new book, but didn't get that one.
*edit* personally I enjoy learning about climate science. I guess CO2 expeller doesn't feel the same way. Maybe I'm a bit of a geek, but climate science fascinates me.
*edit* I find it ironic that a person wouldn't be interested in spending time learning about climate science *because* he has a child. If you're a denier and you're wrong (which you are), you're actively engaging in making your child's future life more difficult. You're refusing to try and solve the problem because you don't even understand that global warming isn't linear, in Expeller's case. But I guess when faced with such a disturbing reality, denial is almost an understandable reaction.
I can just picture the conversation 30 years from now. 'Dad, why didn't you do more to prevent climate change?' 'Well kiddo, you see I thought I knew more about climate science than the world's climate scientists. It seems pretty stupid in retrospect, considering that I didn't even take the time to learn basic stuff like what the various known feedbacks were. Sorry about that'.
*edit* I happen to be married, Expeller. 5-year anniversary in a couple weeks, in fact. Though we don't have kids and don't plan on having any.
How much do airlines charge for changing your flight back to one week earlier?
Approx. one week. I'm going on to visit family with my mom and cousin, and its for a month and a week, and we dont get back to very close to the time school starts. I dont want my whole summer to be spent in a village, which is basically where I'll be :/ I'd like to go home at least a week earlier, how much would that cost?How much do airlines charge for changing your flight back to one week earlier?
It depends on which airliners you choose, some are free and some charge you from a couple hundred to a few hundred because your fixing your schedule and messing they're seating up.How much do airlines charge for changing your flight back to one week earlier?
Depends on the airline. But it can cost up to $150 plus the difference in fare.
It does depend on the specific airline and also how much the ticket cost. Some tickets, depending on how low the fare was, aren't changeable at all. Others are fully flexible and you can call daily to get it changed. Most airlines charge up to $250 plus the difference in fare if applicable to make changes to a ticket.
It depends on which airliners you choose, some are free and some charge you from a couple hundred to a few hundred because your fixing your schedule and messing they're seating up.How much do airlines charge for changing your flight back to one week earlier?
Depends on the airline. But it can cost up to $150 plus the difference in fare.
It does depend on the specific airline and also how much the ticket cost. Some tickets, depending on how low the fare was, aren't changeable at all. Others are fully flexible and you can call daily to get it changed. Most airlines charge up to $250 plus the difference in fare if applicable to make changes to a ticket.
What results could I get from 2 weeks press-ups?
And how many a day would I have to do to get the results?
I've been working quite successfully on belly fat, I just want to get my chest sorted too.
Is it possible to get a good change in this time?
Thanks!What results could I get from 2 weeks press-ups?
Two weeks is not enough time to achieve much unless you are going to do dozens of press ups every day. I have been working out for many years and have a routine that I do twice a day. Diet needs to be healthy and other exercises for heart strength and stamina and other muscle groups are essential to build overall strength and fitness. It would be good to join a gym even if just for three months to get advice on exercise as well as practice with other guys who can encourage you. Then you can buy some weights and carry on exercising at home.
I've been working quite successfully on belly fat, I just want to get my chest sorted too.
Is it possible to get a good change in this time?
Thanks!What results could I get from 2 weeks press-ups?
Two weeks is not enough time to achieve much unless you are going to do dozens of press ups every day. I have been working out for many years and have a routine that I do twice a day. Diet needs to be healthy and other exercises for heart strength and stamina and other muscle groups are essential to build overall strength and fitness. It would be good to join a gym even if just for three months to get advice on exercise as well as practice with other guys who can encourage you. Then you can buy some weights and carry on exercising at home.
Confused on my sexuality? If I am gay or bi, how do I change in the Christian point of view?
Well I don't know if I'm Bi, Gay, Straight, or just Straight-Curious?
K well to begin with, I'm a guy. But idk what my sexual orientation is? I'm attracted to men, but that's all. I would think that person looks hot, but the thought of guy to guy kissing just makes me feel sick. Because i know i would never get intimate with a guy. And this doesn't always happen. On some days, i don't feel attracted to men. The second thing is, i don't feel attracted to women, but watching some lesbian action turns me on? And on some days, i do think of banging a chick, but that's not always the case either, because on some days i don't feel attracted to women. I know this sounds confusing but this is why i asked it, give me your opinion on what you think is wrong with me and what might my sexual orientation be? And also if I am bi or gay, this is wrong in the Christian religion so I would like to change, if I end up being gay or bi, how do I change this?Confused on my sexuality? If I am gay or bi, how do I change in the Christian point of view?
be who you are, don't conform to any religion. take truth as the authority, not authority as the truth.Confused on my sexuality? If I am gay or bi, how do I change in the Christian point of view?
You change it by lying about who you really are. You change it by people making your mind their slave.
Sounds easy enough huh?
Seek First Jesus' Kingdom and then He WILL Reveal 'it' to you!! (John 14:6, Acts 4:10-12, Romans 1:18-32, Romans 10:9-13.) I suggest you read these!
It's your behavior - not your orientation - that you need to keep check on. Through continued and judicious self-discipline your feelings will eventually come into line.
Be faithful to God and he will be faithful to you - and bless you with his blessings.
Circumcision cures Homosexuality.
Homosexuality is something you need a healing for from God. Jesus makes all things new for us when we receive Him. He can deliver you from it.
If I were you I'd stay away from ';Christianity';.
It's only going to make you feel like crap about the way you feel and Christians are not going to help you at all.
Look. Being gay is not a sin in the Christian religion. It is the ACT of sex WITHOUT marriage that is considered sin. Don't sleep around, thats all. The two are not mutually exclusive, you know.
The sin is unmarried sex, ANY unmarried sex, regardless of whether you are straight, gay or bi. What pisses me off is these openly gay ministers and priests. Who gave them special permission to break the rules and get away with it? Unmarried sex is unmarried sex. Show some self control and responsibility for crying out loud. (Them, not you).
Everyone's flesh is weak...
The world doesn't exactly have a straight answers for this.
Look, We don't know how badly the devil has messed up our biology...
When Jesus said it is better not to marry if you can avoid it, do so.... he knew what he was talking about...
Look, Jesus would not have said that it was a sin to have a sinful thought, if he did not have a fix for it. That is God for you....
Pray and He'll change it.
First of all..remember that we live in the world. Where pornography, television, and perverted minds have defiled ours. And most of the time it is hard to by pass. SO with that being said...You are straight. You were created to be a man who loves a woman. It obviously makes you sick to see guys kissing each other and you know you'd never be intimate with one because you weren't created for that. The only real answer I can give you for this question is this, which is opinion only: Prayer. Spend as much time in prayer and the word as you can. And don't feel ashamed or different because you've asked this question because many people have those thoughts and they just don't mention it. I think it's great that you're seeking help in that are. Just keep seeking Jesus. Ask him to show you who you are and what you were created for! Don't watch porn especially! That is going to twist your view. Watch what you watch on TV....that takes discipline! Especially when you are enjoying a show.
It has been proven that homosexuality is a chemical imbalance (for lack of a better word) in your brain. (please don't jump on me let me clarify). The hormones in our body are ';attracted to the hormones in the opposite sex's body'; thats how this show I was watching said it. God is an understanding God, he is not going to shun you for being a homosexual. God is no respecter of persons, he loves us all equally. But the Word will help you.
I can't tell you your sexuality, it depends if you can find yourself physically, emotionally, and sexually attracted to a sex. If women exclusively, you're straight. If men exclusively, you're gay. If both, you're bi. To me you sound straight.
Admitting a man's attractiveness doesn't make you gay. I can tell the difference of attractive and unattractive between my friends, who are guys, but I have no romantic or sexual feelings towards them. It's superficial, and seeing the difference doesn't make me gay.
I can't tell you how to deal with your religion either, but a lot of homosexuals I know that are religious say they know that their God will accept them because they've accepted Jesus in to their heart or something. Either way, times are changing, and Christians need to update their views on a lot of different things.
Just be yourself.
I can't really tell you what you are but I'm guessing you're bisexual since you say you are attracted to women. I don't think you'd be asking this question if you were completely straight either. Just because you see a guy that you think is hot that doesn't mean you're gay, bi or str8. Even though some guys don't like to admit when they see a nice looking guy. You know who's attractive and you can recognize a person's beauty without being sexually attracted to them. If you are having sexual and emotional feelings for the same-sex then you are gay or bi. I would also be concerned that you're suppressing those homosexual feelings because you feel they're wrong to have. If you're bisexual or gay. That's who you are there's a lot of gay and bisexual people out there in different religions, cultures and non-believers. I'm not sure how old you are but I think you should learn to live with being who you are. It's not wrong and all you can really do is deny and suppress it if you are gay or bi.
I would say that you're bi, but I am not 100% sure.
Let me set one thing strait though!
God does NOT hate gay's, or bi's. It is NOT a sin to be gay or bi. The sin in homosexuality is acting upon it. Acting upon it means having sex with another guy, kissing another guy, getting married to guy, et cetera, et cetera. And since you say you would never get that intimate with a guy, you would not be acting upon it.
Basically what i'm saying is; It is NOT a sin to be gay, but the sin of homosexuality is acting upon it.
Peace.
P.S. If you would like to talk more about this please feel free to email me at- jeffrey.lifeteen@yahoo.ca
K well to begin with, I'm a guy. But idk what my sexual orientation is? I'm attracted to men, but that's all. I would think that person looks hot, but the thought of guy to guy kissing just makes me feel sick. Because i know i would never get intimate with a guy. And this doesn't always happen. On some days, i don't feel attracted to men. The second thing is, i don't feel attracted to women, but watching some lesbian action turns me on? And on some days, i do think of banging a chick, but that's not always the case either, because on some days i don't feel attracted to women. I know this sounds confusing but this is why i asked it, give me your opinion on what you think is wrong with me and what might my sexual orientation be? And also if I am bi or gay, this is wrong in the Christian religion so I would like to change, if I end up being gay or bi, how do I change this?Confused on my sexuality? If I am gay or bi, how do I change in the Christian point of view?
be who you are, don't conform to any religion. take truth as the authority, not authority as the truth.Confused on my sexuality? If I am gay or bi, how do I change in the Christian point of view?
You change it by lying about who you really are. You change it by people making your mind their slave.
Sounds easy enough huh?
Seek First Jesus' Kingdom and then He WILL Reveal 'it' to you!! (John 14:6, Acts 4:10-12, Romans 1:18-32, Romans 10:9-13.) I suggest you read these!
It's your behavior - not your orientation - that you need to keep check on. Through continued and judicious self-discipline your feelings will eventually come into line.
Be faithful to God and he will be faithful to you - and bless you with his blessings.
Circumcision cures Homosexuality.
Homosexuality is something you need a healing for from God. Jesus makes all things new for us when we receive Him. He can deliver you from it.
If I were you I'd stay away from ';Christianity';.
It's only going to make you feel like crap about the way you feel and Christians are not going to help you at all.
Look. Being gay is not a sin in the Christian religion. It is the ACT of sex WITHOUT marriage that is considered sin. Don't sleep around, thats all. The two are not mutually exclusive, you know.
The sin is unmarried sex, ANY unmarried sex, regardless of whether you are straight, gay or bi. What pisses me off is these openly gay ministers and priests. Who gave them special permission to break the rules and get away with it? Unmarried sex is unmarried sex. Show some self control and responsibility for crying out loud. (Them, not you).
Everyone's flesh is weak...
The world doesn't exactly have a straight answers for this.
Look, We don't know how badly the devil has messed up our biology...
When Jesus said it is better not to marry if you can avoid it, do so.... he knew what he was talking about...
Look, Jesus would not have said that it was a sin to have a sinful thought, if he did not have a fix for it. That is God for you....
Pray and He'll change it.
First of all..remember that we live in the world. Where pornography, television, and perverted minds have defiled ours. And most of the time it is hard to by pass. SO with that being said...You are straight. You were created to be a man who loves a woman. It obviously makes you sick to see guys kissing each other and you know you'd never be intimate with one because you weren't created for that. The only real answer I can give you for this question is this, which is opinion only: Prayer. Spend as much time in prayer and the word as you can. And don't feel ashamed or different because you've asked this question because many people have those thoughts and they just don't mention it. I think it's great that you're seeking help in that are. Just keep seeking Jesus. Ask him to show you who you are and what you were created for! Don't watch porn especially! That is going to twist your view. Watch what you watch on TV....that takes discipline! Especially when you are enjoying a show.
It has been proven that homosexuality is a chemical imbalance (for lack of a better word) in your brain. (please don't jump on me let me clarify). The hormones in our body are ';attracted to the hormones in the opposite sex's body'; thats how this show I was watching said it. God is an understanding God, he is not going to shun you for being a homosexual. God is no respecter of persons, he loves us all equally. But the Word will help you.
I can't tell you your sexuality, it depends if you can find yourself physically, emotionally, and sexually attracted to a sex. If women exclusively, you're straight. If men exclusively, you're gay. If both, you're bi. To me you sound straight.
Admitting a man's attractiveness doesn't make you gay. I can tell the difference of attractive and unattractive between my friends, who are guys, but I have no romantic or sexual feelings towards them. It's superficial, and seeing the difference doesn't make me gay.
I can't tell you how to deal with your religion either, but a lot of homosexuals I know that are religious say they know that their God will accept them because they've accepted Jesus in to their heart or something. Either way, times are changing, and Christians need to update their views on a lot of different things.
Just be yourself.
I can't really tell you what you are but I'm guessing you're bisexual since you say you are attracted to women. I don't think you'd be asking this question if you were completely straight either. Just because you see a guy that you think is hot that doesn't mean you're gay, bi or str8. Even though some guys don't like to admit when they see a nice looking guy. You know who's attractive and you can recognize a person's beauty without being sexually attracted to them. If you are having sexual and emotional feelings for the same-sex then you are gay or bi. I would also be concerned that you're suppressing those homosexual feelings because you feel they're wrong to have. If you're bisexual or gay. That's who you are there's a lot of gay and bisexual people out there in different religions, cultures and non-believers. I'm not sure how old you are but I think you should learn to live with being who you are. It's not wrong and all you can really do is deny and suppress it if you are gay or bi.
I would say that you're bi, but I am not 100% sure.
Let me set one thing strait though!
God does NOT hate gay's, or bi's. It is NOT a sin to be gay or bi. The sin in homosexuality is acting upon it. Acting upon it means having sex with another guy, kissing another guy, getting married to guy, et cetera, et cetera. And since you say you would never get that intimate with a guy, you would not be acting upon it.
Basically what i'm saying is; It is NOT a sin to be gay, but the sin of homosexuality is acting upon it.
Peace.
P.S. If you would like to talk more about this please feel free to email me at- jeffrey.lifeteen@yahoo.ca
How I do I talk my mom out of taking the internet off?
My mom thinks all I do is play on it and I do no work. I only do that when I have no school work. I gave her a bit of attitude, but thats who I am! I give everyone attitude, and she shouldn't try to change me. I have lots of friends online and I got a few foopets ( http://www.foopets.com) which need fed/watered/played with everyday, I've gotten so attached I cant stand the thought of leaving them!
I tried to bribe my way out, by saying I would do all my homework first then play on the comp for a few mins but she says ';I dont care I've made up my mind';. I've heard that a dozen times....but right now I dont know if its true.
How?? Give me good ideas!How I do I talk my mom out of taking the internet off?
Hey guy, You make your daily work time table and in this time table you give some tome for internet activity. I think you must have done any thing wrong and your mom knew it. If you do this you haven't problem from your mother...How I do I talk my mom out of taking the internet off?
lol shes your mom nothing you can do, and I agree with her ';she shouldnt try to change me'; youve got a problem dude.
the fact that you say thats just who you are is NO excuse in my book. she will always be your mom and the more you have attitudes with people, the more you'll find yourself unable to be given favors by most people who are in your life. so lose the attitude, think before you speak and act and be MORE respect to your mother. If she cuts the internet off, you'll just have to work harder to gain her trust back and she may give it back to you. but for some reason, she doesn't trust you enough to have it on. That's something you have to talk to her about without getting heated.
Sit your mother down and explain to her that you really like the internet and thats when you are in contact with your friends most of the time becuase its easier to see them that way. tell her you've always been smart about doing homework first and have never put it aside for something. tell her if she takes it away, you'll be bored. if she sees that you're sincere and that you really want it on, she may reconsider. (shouldn't have to bribe her with homework, you're suppose to do it anyway.)
say that i get great knowledge from internet.. i can learn lots of good things from internet
you must have done something bad. Not having internet is like not having electricity and your mom has a reason. She's probably watching your browsing history.
You say you give everyone attitude and that is just you, however she is your mother and deserves respect. She provides for you and gave you birth. You should apologize to her....and not just so you can get the Internet but sincerely because you were disrespectful. You wonder why she has made up her mind, I am betting the disrespect is her reason. You need to stop the ';that's just me'; excuses and start treating her like a human being. Start there.
I tried to bribe my way out, by saying I would do all my homework first then play on the comp for a few mins but she says ';I dont care I've made up my mind';. I've heard that a dozen times....but right now I dont know if its true.
How?? Give me good ideas!How I do I talk my mom out of taking the internet off?
Hey guy, You make your daily work time table and in this time table you give some tome for internet activity. I think you must have done any thing wrong and your mom knew it. If you do this you haven't problem from your mother...How I do I talk my mom out of taking the internet off?
lol shes your mom nothing you can do, and I agree with her ';she shouldnt try to change me'; youve got a problem dude.
the fact that you say thats just who you are is NO excuse in my book. she will always be your mom and the more you have attitudes with people, the more you'll find yourself unable to be given favors by most people who are in your life. so lose the attitude, think before you speak and act and be MORE respect to your mother. If she cuts the internet off, you'll just have to work harder to gain her trust back and she may give it back to you. but for some reason, she doesn't trust you enough to have it on. That's something you have to talk to her about without getting heated.
Sit your mother down and explain to her that you really like the internet and thats when you are in contact with your friends most of the time becuase its easier to see them that way. tell her you've always been smart about doing homework first and have never put it aside for something. tell her if she takes it away, you'll be bored. if she sees that you're sincere and that you really want it on, she may reconsider. (shouldn't have to bribe her with homework, you're suppose to do it anyway.)
say that i get great knowledge from internet.. i can learn lots of good things from internet
you must have done something bad. Not having internet is like not having electricity and your mom has a reason. She's probably watching your browsing history.
You say you give everyone attitude and that is just you, however she is your mother and deserves respect. She provides for you and gave you birth. You should apologize to her....and not just so you can get the Internet but sincerely because you were disrespectful. You wonder why she has made up her mind, I am betting the disrespect is her reason. You need to stop the ';that's just me'; excuses and start treating her like a human being. Start there.
How do I resolve anger issues?
I'm really mad about a few things and it's the same things over and over that I get angry about and I don't know how I can get the anger away. It's pointless to get angry because nothing is going to change, but the anger is still there. What can I do to put these issues to rest for good?How do I resolve anger issues?
I had the same problem a few years ago and I decided that I needed help, i.e. Anger Management. So that's exactly what I did. I couldn't ';fix it'; so I sought out a professional and through cognitive therapy we worked it all out. I felt SO relieved and like tons of weights were lifted off my shoulders and my heart as well. I couldn't have done it without the help I got.
Therapy is not for everyone and you have to WANT it to work.
GOOD LUCK!! :)How do I resolve anger issues?
do something you in joy to do. like listening to music or draw. but if you saying its pointless to get angry. why not let it go like nothing happened? ignore it. me i can get angry fast but i learned to just ignore it if its that pointless. some times i take a deep breath.ill maybe find something else to do instead of being somewhere being angry.
Don't internalize it, but obviously don't take it out on other people. Pausing to breathe and calm yourself down could help, but so could therapy if your anger is severe enough.
Please understand that when you get mad you are allowing someone else to be in control of your mental status. This means that any poop you run into could be in control of your person simply by your getting mad at them or their behavior. Get out of a take offense mode... refuse to take offense...if you are in a childish take offense mode you can take offense even when none is given, even when none is intended...this is childish...grow up. If you get out of a take offense mode, you will not get mad even if someone intends to be offensive to you. Then you are free as a bird. Good luck!
Meditation can help you overcome your anger issues as it helps to calm the mind and balance the body. Looking back on it now I noticed in my own experiences with my anger is that when I felt like I was being attacked I had to attack back, I also noticed that every time I reacted in anger, my body and my mind was out of whack I was not as focused as I should have been but through Meditation I have been able to keep my body in balance and I do not respond with anger anymore.thin hair listview bug
I had the same problem a few years ago and I decided that I needed help, i.e. Anger Management. So that's exactly what I did. I couldn't ';fix it'; so I sought out a professional and through cognitive therapy we worked it all out. I felt SO relieved and like tons of weights were lifted off my shoulders and my heart as well. I couldn't have done it without the help I got.
Therapy is not for everyone and you have to WANT it to work.
GOOD LUCK!! :)How do I resolve anger issues?
do something you in joy to do. like listening to music or draw. but if you saying its pointless to get angry. why not let it go like nothing happened? ignore it. me i can get angry fast but i learned to just ignore it if its that pointless. some times i take a deep breath.ill maybe find something else to do instead of being somewhere being angry.
Don't internalize it, but obviously don't take it out on other people. Pausing to breathe and calm yourself down could help, but so could therapy if your anger is severe enough.
Please understand that when you get mad you are allowing someone else to be in control of your mental status. This means that any poop you run into could be in control of your person simply by your getting mad at them or their behavior. Get out of a take offense mode... refuse to take offense...if you are in a childish take offense mode you can take offense even when none is given, even when none is intended...this is childish...grow up. If you get out of a take offense mode, you will not get mad even if someone intends to be offensive to you. Then you are free as a bird. Good luck!
Meditation can help you overcome your anger issues as it helps to calm the mind and balance the body. Looking back on it now I noticed in my own experiences with my anger is that when I felt like I was being attacked I had to attack back, I also noticed that every time I reacted in anger, my body and my mind was out of whack I was not as focused as I should have been but through Meditation I have been able to keep my body in balance and I do not respond with anger anymore.
How to get a guy to like me?
theres this guy at school tht i really like we arent tht close but we sometimes talk i got dared to ask him out but when i did he said no.
i kno tht i shouldnt even try to get the guy to like me but i like him sooo much wht should i do to make him change his mind about his feelings for me
HELLLLLPPPPPPP!!!!!!!How to get a guy to like me?
Give up. He'll end up hating you more if you try.How to get a guy to like me?
Tell him that when you asked him out, you had a bet. Tell him you want to just be friends. Hang with him and tell him how great you are without bragging or without sounding flirt. Really sound like you just want to be friends.
squeeze his cheeks
to start talk to him more
try to get his cell phone#
Either move on or act is if your too good for him (give him the feeling that he blew his chances with you).
You shouldn't have to ';get'; someone to like you. If they don't like you, then that's the end of it. Don't be fake just so he will go out with you. Have some self respect.
I wood ask a grown up in the house lol if u have a older sister ask her to do ur make-up in the morning and gurrrl just flirttt wen i like someone i call them my best friend dont take it cause where i live it also mean something else
lose weight, get pretty, and stop shitting all over the place. Tell him to stop bein a scared *** pussy *****. Tell him he should like big women. Find the hole in those big *** rolls.
usally putting out helps maybe you should asking him to be balls deep in your mouth...also maybe he doesn't like you bc your fat or ulgy flat chested there is a whole list but if i were you i'd walk up to him and say lets have mouth sex
sometimes guys just dont want to go out with anyone....they might have their minds on someone else...but act cool....then ull get his attention...or (even if it will get u introble) when your in one of his classes make a really loud noise....it will make him laugh and boys LOVE funny girls...
well you should have your mind set on liking you not him as he already said no let him see youre happy without him and you can like yourself. you are young and you have forever ahead of you and you dont need to push the thought any longer. fact is he has his mind set on something or someone else and you can not make him like you. he may learn to like you that way if given the time. otherwise let it and him go! you can be happy without him
you should tell him the whole asking thing out was a bet be friends and little by little get closer to each other not like always shoulder to shoulder or anything just close talk and maybe flirt a little then you should keep your distance but not like if ur mad at him then if he starts hanging out with u then you should ask him if he likes u and if he does you can ask him out again and BAM you got him but dont go near him or bother him cuz that could make him NOT like you and you dont want that
good luck:)
i kno tht i shouldnt even try to get the guy to like me but i like him sooo much wht should i do to make him change his mind about his feelings for me
HELLLLLPPPPPPP!!!!!!!How to get a guy to like me?
Give up. He'll end up hating you more if you try.How to get a guy to like me?
Tell him that when you asked him out, you had a bet. Tell him you want to just be friends. Hang with him and tell him how great you are without bragging or without sounding flirt. Really sound like you just want to be friends.
squeeze his cheeks
to start talk to him more
try to get his cell phone#
Either move on or act is if your too good for him (give him the feeling that he blew his chances with you).
You shouldn't have to ';get'; someone to like you. If they don't like you, then that's the end of it. Don't be fake just so he will go out with you. Have some self respect.
I wood ask a grown up in the house lol if u have a older sister ask her to do ur make-up in the morning and gurrrl just flirttt wen i like someone i call them my best friend dont take it cause where i live it also mean something else
lose weight, get pretty, and stop shitting all over the place. Tell him to stop bein a scared *** pussy *****. Tell him he should like big women. Find the hole in those big *** rolls.
usally putting out helps maybe you should asking him to be balls deep in your mouth...also maybe he doesn't like you bc your fat or ulgy flat chested there is a whole list but if i were you i'd walk up to him and say lets have mouth sex
sometimes guys just dont want to go out with anyone....they might have their minds on someone else...but act cool....then ull get his attention...or (even if it will get u introble) when your in one of his classes make a really loud noise....it will make him laugh and boys LOVE funny girls...
well you should have your mind set on liking you not him as he already said no let him see youre happy without him and you can like yourself. you are young and you have forever ahead of you and you dont need to push the thought any longer. fact is he has his mind set on something or someone else and you can not make him like you. he may learn to like you that way if given the time. otherwise let it and him go! you can be happy without him
you should tell him the whole asking thing out was a bet be friends and little by little get closer to each other not like always shoulder to shoulder or anything just close talk and maybe flirt a little then you should keep your distance but not like if ur mad at him then if he starts hanging out with u then you should ask him if he likes u and if he does you can ask him out again and BAM you got him but dont go near him or bother him cuz that could make him NOT like you and you dont want that
good luck:)
How do I talk dirty to a girl?
This girl I'm talking to keeps trying to steer the conversation in a ';naughty'; direction, but always get nervous and change the subject because I don't know what to say. I really don't want to say something that's unsmooth and unsexy. What am I supposed to say? What do girls like to hear?How do I talk dirty to a girl?
Compliments...follow her lead...
asnwermine?http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;How do I talk dirty to a girl?
so your saying shes horny ?
well if yaa wanna talk perverted, just talk like your tryin to get in her pants i guess
be like ';so how about sex tonight?';
LOL
Don't do dirty talk. Think of something nicer.
compliments and follow her pace %26lt;3 best of luckk!
she wants to hear the same things you'd wanna hear. Avoid anything cheesy or too cliche cuz thats a turn off, just be honest and tell her what you would like to do to her, talk about how hott she is and how much you want her...compliments get you everywhere, even if they are stupid. Everyone wants to feel wanted.
Compliments...follow her lead...
asnwermine?http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;How do I talk dirty to a girl?
so your saying shes horny ?
well if yaa wanna talk perverted, just talk like your tryin to get in her pants i guess
be like ';so how about sex tonight?';
LOL
Don't do dirty talk. Think of something nicer.
compliments and follow her pace %26lt;3 best of luckk!
she wants to hear the same things you'd wanna hear. Avoid anything cheesy or too cliche cuz thats a turn off, just be honest and tell her what you would like to do to her, talk about how hott she is and how much you want her...compliments get you everywhere, even if they are stupid. Everyone wants to feel wanted.
How do i take out a captive bead?
I have a helix and i am about to change it out except i cant get the bead out,the assholes at my shop wont take it out for me and i dont want to tear my earHow do i take out a captive bead?
yes do that
yes do that
I need to get rid of my emotional baggage but I don't know how?
Almost five months ago I got out of a year and a half relationship and it was bad, for the last year of our relationship i feel like he did nothing but emotionally scar me. I should have left him when all of it started but I didn't see it then all I knew was that I loved him and I wanted to be with him. He told me things like I wasn't pretty, I was a whore, I would never find another guy who would treat me as good as he treated me, I was a bad girlfriend and that I wasn't good enough for him.
Every time we got into a fight and I would try and brake up with him he always got me to change my mind and make me feel like I was the bad one in the relationship. The night before we broke up I was trying to brake up with him and he talked me into staying and the next night he broke up with me saying ';He wanted to f*ck other girls and he would be back in two months.';
It broke my heart hearing him say that and I know now that I was stupid for saying with him as long as I did but I wanted to believe I found the person I was going to spend my life with. The brake up was hard I was crying everyday for two weeks and having trouble eating and sleeping and to top it off he was STILL playing games with me. One day he would be saying ho much he loves me and misses me and the next day he would be saying how he wants to be friends. Twice he even said he wanted to get back together with me and I wanted FOUR HOURS for him to show up and he never did. I finally got to the point where I realized I could do so much better then him and I told him to delete my number because I never wanted to hear from him again, and we haven't talked since.
I'm in another relationship now and I'm trying to start over and overcome my past but in the back of my head I can't help feeling like this relationship is going to turn out like my last and I'm so scared to go through that again. I know this guy is nothing like my ex but I'm scared and I'm scared my emotional baggage is going to push him away. So do you have any tips on how I can overcome my past and drop my baggage?I need to get rid of my emotional baggage but I don't know how?
I would suggest talking to your new boyfriend about it....unless you think that would freak him out too much, maybe you could vent to your friends?? In my expirience, talking it out (sometimes several times) really makes things better :)
and by stopping communication with him, that was a good move; you knew he was no good, and you finally made it more official that you weren't just breaking up with him, but that you were also breaking off any connection with him; it was for the best; don't ever doubt that :)
Every time we got into a fight and I would try and brake up with him he always got me to change my mind and make me feel like I was the bad one in the relationship. The night before we broke up I was trying to brake up with him and he talked me into staying and the next night he broke up with me saying ';He wanted to f*ck other girls and he would be back in two months.';
It broke my heart hearing him say that and I know now that I was stupid for saying with him as long as I did but I wanted to believe I found the person I was going to spend my life with. The brake up was hard I was crying everyday for two weeks and having trouble eating and sleeping and to top it off he was STILL playing games with me. One day he would be saying ho much he loves me and misses me and the next day he would be saying how he wants to be friends. Twice he even said he wanted to get back together with me and I wanted FOUR HOURS for him to show up and he never did. I finally got to the point where I realized I could do so much better then him and I told him to delete my number because I never wanted to hear from him again, and we haven't talked since.
I'm in another relationship now and I'm trying to start over and overcome my past but in the back of my head I can't help feeling like this relationship is going to turn out like my last and I'm so scared to go through that again. I know this guy is nothing like my ex but I'm scared and I'm scared my emotional baggage is going to push him away. So do you have any tips on how I can overcome my past and drop my baggage?I need to get rid of my emotional baggage but I don't know how?
I would suggest talking to your new boyfriend about it....unless you think that would freak him out too much, maybe you could vent to your friends?? In my expirience, talking it out (sometimes several times) really makes things better :)
and by stopping communication with him, that was a good move; you knew he was no good, and you finally made it more official that you weren't just breaking up with him, but that you were also breaking off any connection with him; it was for the best; don't ever doubt that :)
I need to get rid of my emotional baggage but I don't know how?
Almost five months ago I got out of a year and a half relationship and it was bad, for the last year of our relationship i feel like he did nothing but emotionally scar me. I should have left him when all of it started but I didn't see it then all I knew was that I loved him and I wanted to be with him. He told me things like I wasn't pretty, I was a whore, I would never find another guy who would treat me as good as he treated me, I was a bad girlfriend and that I wasn't good enough for him.
Every time we got into a fight and I would try and brake up with him he always got me to change my mind and make me feel like I was the bad one in the relationship. The night before we broke up I was trying to brake up with him and he talked me into staying and the next night he broke up with me saying ';He wanted to f*ck other girls and he would be back in two months.';
It broke my heart hearing him say that and I know now that I was stupid for saying with him as long as I did but I wanted to believe I found the person I was going to spend my life with. The brake up was hard I was crying everyday for two weeks and having trouble eating and sleeping and to top it off he was STILL playing games with me. One day he would be saying ho much he loves me and misses me and the next day he would be saying how he wants to be friends. Twice he even said he wanted to get back together with me and I wanted FOUR HOURS for him to show up and he never did. I finally got to the point where I realized I could do so much better then him and I told him to delete my number because I never wanted to hear from him again, and we haven't talked since.
I'm in another relationship now and I'm trying to start over and overcome my past but in the back of my head I can't help feeling like this relationship is going to turn out like my last and I'm so scared to go through that again. I know this guy is nothing like my ex but I'm scared and I'm scared my emotional baggage is going to push him away. So do you have any tips on how I can overcome my past and drop my baggage?I need to get rid of my emotional baggage but I don't know how?
Don't drag the ugly relationship into your new relationship or it will be ruined. Just be thankful you found someone nice and focus on that.I need to get rid of my emotional baggage but I don't know how?
counseling and talk to your current bf and let him know that you love him and let him know what your ex put you through if he loves you he will stand by you and be patient
The good news is all the answers to these questions are within yourself. The bad news is you have so much emotional baggage I'm not sure you should be in another relationship because you haven't fixed the relationship you have with yourself. Your ex sounds like a real A** but you let him treat you like that and until you figure out why you believe that you deserve to be treated like crap you will continue to allow people to treat you like that. My suggestion is to read every self help book you can get your hands on until you find one that speaks to you so you can figure out why you have set such low standards for the people you've allowed in your life and into your bedroom. Demand more for yourself and that's what you'll receive.
First, we were not really given the ability to forget, but it is important to forgive. Forgive your ex. (And forgive yourself too for making the wrong decision of being with that jerk).
Second, you have to focus on the present guy. I hope he is not a rebound relationship, because it will be so unfair for him (I am starting to put myself in his shoes, of what I will feel if ever I found out you are still haunted by your past relationship).
He has nothing to do with your past, but he surely has something to do with your present and future. So spend time with him, talk with him about anything and try not to think about your past mistakes. Your ex doesn't deserve any reminiscing or whatsoever. He ruined it and he does not deserve any memories in your heart and in your mind. So thinking about him should even make you shiver and regretful that you allowed him to be with you for a year and a half.
It will take time to make those internal cuts and wounds heal. But for now, you deserve to be happy, because the moron out there is having fun like who cares. Spend time with your present BF. Have fun and love each other dearly! :)
I can relate to how you feel, I have dealt with men like this and am now in the process of divorce with one.
It is hard to do this on your own, get therapy. Most employers offer an employee assistance program for free therapy for a certain number of visits, and then just pay a co-pay for how ever many more visits you take. A therapist is trained to help you deal with the emotions and help you get healthy emotionally. Either call your HR or your health insurance company to inquire.
It is hard to get into a new relationship after being abused, because you compare him to your ex and fear the abuse happening again. You are probably not ready to be in a relationship and fully give yourself yet. You must heal yourself first. I would have a chat with your current man about your feelings, be open and honest. If he cant accept it, then he is not right for you and will only create more confusion and emotional baggage.
If you can, look at your past b/f as someone who was sick, because he was just that! Someone who had one sick mind %26amp; hurt you badly with it playing games with your head. This new person is nothing like him. He is NOT sick. So if you can, tell yourself you are not going to bring this ';sickness'; into your new relationship. Take away the ';power'; he has holding over your mind. The power of his controlling sickness. You KNOW your new b/f is nothing like him in any way. So free yourself from him by putting him in your past %26amp; leaving him there. Don't accept the unacceptable with him. You are not going to bring this disease into this new relationship with you, so let it go. Keep going forward with your new life. I believe in time you WILL be able to overcome the past as your life has been replaced with happiness. You have nothing to be afraid of, your new love WILL carry you thru. It will overtake all the scars %26amp; heal them. You have nothing to fear but fear itself. I've proved that 99.9% of what we worry about never happens. I've ';preached'; this to my adult children who have now realized this themselves. So you can be another one to prove that to be true. The past is forever gone, the future is still our own. In time you WILL overcome this as happiness takes over in your life %26amp; you suddenly realize there's absolutely nothing to worry about after all. You WILL gain strength from all this %26amp; end up a far better happier person from it all. If we do things rite they will work out rite, I DO wish you all the best %26amp; just KNOW you'll be OK in the future...:)
Every time we got into a fight and I would try and brake up with him he always got me to change my mind and make me feel like I was the bad one in the relationship. The night before we broke up I was trying to brake up with him and he talked me into staying and the next night he broke up with me saying ';He wanted to f*ck other girls and he would be back in two months.';
It broke my heart hearing him say that and I know now that I was stupid for saying with him as long as I did but I wanted to believe I found the person I was going to spend my life with. The brake up was hard I was crying everyday for two weeks and having trouble eating and sleeping and to top it off he was STILL playing games with me. One day he would be saying ho much he loves me and misses me and the next day he would be saying how he wants to be friends. Twice he even said he wanted to get back together with me and I wanted FOUR HOURS for him to show up and he never did. I finally got to the point where I realized I could do so much better then him and I told him to delete my number because I never wanted to hear from him again, and we haven't talked since.
I'm in another relationship now and I'm trying to start over and overcome my past but in the back of my head I can't help feeling like this relationship is going to turn out like my last and I'm so scared to go through that again. I know this guy is nothing like my ex but I'm scared and I'm scared my emotional baggage is going to push him away. So do you have any tips on how I can overcome my past and drop my baggage?I need to get rid of my emotional baggage but I don't know how?
Don't drag the ugly relationship into your new relationship or it will be ruined. Just be thankful you found someone nice and focus on that.I need to get rid of my emotional baggage but I don't know how?
counseling and talk to your current bf and let him know that you love him and let him know what your ex put you through if he loves you he will stand by you and be patient
The good news is all the answers to these questions are within yourself. The bad news is you have so much emotional baggage I'm not sure you should be in another relationship because you haven't fixed the relationship you have with yourself. Your ex sounds like a real A** but you let him treat you like that and until you figure out why you believe that you deserve to be treated like crap you will continue to allow people to treat you like that. My suggestion is to read every self help book you can get your hands on until you find one that speaks to you so you can figure out why you have set such low standards for the people you've allowed in your life and into your bedroom. Demand more for yourself and that's what you'll receive.
First, we were not really given the ability to forget, but it is important to forgive. Forgive your ex. (And forgive yourself too for making the wrong decision of being with that jerk).
Second, you have to focus on the present guy. I hope he is not a rebound relationship, because it will be so unfair for him (I am starting to put myself in his shoes, of what I will feel if ever I found out you are still haunted by your past relationship).
He has nothing to do with your past, but he surely has something to do with your present and future. So spend time with him, talk with him about anything and try not to think about your past mistakes. Your ex doesn't deserve any reminiscing or whatsoever. He ruined it and he does not deserve any memories in your heart and in your mind. So thinking about him should even make you shiver and regretful that you allowed him to be with you for a year and a half.
It will take time to make those internal cuts and wounds heal. But for now, you deserve to be happy, because the moron out there is having fun like who cares. Spend time with your present BF. Have fun and love each other dearly! :)
I can relate to how you feel, I have dealt with men like this and am now in the process of divorce with one.
It is hard to do this on your own, get therapy. Most employers offer an employee assistance program for free therapy for a certain number of visits, and then just pay a co-pay for how ever many more visits you take. A therapist is trained to help you deal with the emotions and help you get healthy emotionally. Either call your HR or your health insurance company to inquire.
It is hard to get into a new relationship after being abused, because you compare him to your ex and fear the abuse happening again. You are probably not ready to be in a relationship and fully give yourself yet. You must heal yourself first. I would have a chat with your current man about your feelings, be open and honest. If he cant accept it, then he is not right for you and will only create more confusion and emotional baggage.
If you can, look at your past b/f as someone who was sick, because he was just that! Someone who had one sick mind %26amp; hurt you badly with it playing games with your head. This new person is nothing like him. He is NOT sick. So if you can, tell yourself you are not going to bring this ';sickness'; into your new relationship. Take away the ';power'; he has holding over your mind. The power of his controlling sickness. You KNOW your new b/f is nothing like him in any way. So free yourself from him by putting him in your past %26amp; leaving him there. Don't accept the unacceptable with him. You are not going to bring this disease into this new relationship with you, so let it go. Keep going forward with your new life. I believe in time you WILL be able to overcome the past as your life has been replaced with happiness. You have nothing to be afraid of, your new love WILL carry you thru. It will overtake all the scars %26amp; heal them. You have nothing to fear but fear itself. I've proved that 99.9% of what we worry about never happens. I've ';preached'; this to my adult children who have now realized this themselves. So you can be another one to prove that to be true. The past is forever gone, the future is still our own. In time you WILL overcome this as happiness takes over in your life %26amp; you suddenly realize there's absolutely nothing to worry about after all. You WILL gain strength from all this %26amp; end up a far better happier person from it all. If we do things rite they will work out rite, I DO wish you all the best %26amp; just KNOW you'll be OK in the future...:)
How can i get internet on my unlocked blackberry tour?
i was given a verizon blackberry tour and i jail broke it so it would work for at%26amp;t service and i have the internet plan but i cannot get internet or have pictures sent to me...what can i do to change this?How can i get internet on my unlocked blackberry tour?
You would need to have the phone re-programmed to ATTs settings for internet servicedog com and interop
You would need to have the phone re-programmed to ATTs settings for internet service
How do i improve my sound on alto saxophone without changing mouthpiece or saxophone.?
how do i get the best i can get out my student horn and mouthpiece.how do i practice be specific.i already know to listen to sounds of professionals but its hard when there are so many instruments playing.please give me an easy simple way to improve sound that doesnt require going buyin expensive accessoriesHow do i improve my sound on alto saxophone without changing mouthpiece or saxophone.?
you really just have to practice lots and lots of times. Even just by yourself at home where its quiet.How do i improve my sound on alto saxophone without changing mouthpiece or saxophone.?
Long tones each day will help, look up some exercises on google you might find some good ones.
And make sure your top lip is super super tight against your front teeth, and be careful not to pinch on your mouthpiece too hard.
A good mouthpiece really does help sound without even changing the horn. I use a Selmer C* for classical, and Meyer 6 M for jazz and they're both really great.
Also, a lesson teacher is really helpful.
good luck!!
you really just have to practice lots and lots of times. Even just by yourself at home where its quiet.How do i improve my sound on alto saxophone without changing mouthpiece or saxophone.?
Long tones each day will help, look up some exercises on google you might find some good ones.
And make sure your top lip is super super tight against your front teeth, and be careful not to pinch on your mouthpiece too hard.
A good mouthpiece really does help sound without even changing the horn. I use a Selmer C* for classical, and Meyer 6 M for jazz and they're both really great.
Also, a lesson teacher is really helpful.
good luck!!
How can i get over my exboyfriend?
i knew him as a friend for almost a year. as friends, we stopped talking to each other cause we had problems. 5 months after the arguement, he apoligized and became friends again. then we started going out. we broke up after 6 months of going out because he found out i cheated on him w/ his best friend. i feel really messed up for that. i can't undo my mistakes though... i did it cause people have been telling me that he was cheating on me.. so i just want 2 kno if should at least try being friends w/ him...? (even though he's ignored me for about 3 months now) or just 4get about him and move on.. and if so, how?---yea, ppl have called me a ***** 4 wat i've done, but i cnt change wat already happened...How can i get over my exboyfriend?
Yes, you made a mistake, but it doesn't sound like the ';perfect'; relationship anyway. Tell people that your mistake is in the past and to move on. If you couldn't get along as friends, a relationship would make it more difficult. Why to you want to talk to him? To make you feel better? He is not interested. Make peace with yourself and move on. Forgive yourself ...we all make mistakes. We have all cheated in the past ..even if it was just 1x. You need to leave him and his friend(s) alone.
Yes, you made a mistake, but it doesn't sound like the ';perfect'; relationship anyway. Tell people that your mistake is in the past and to move on. If you couldn't get along as friends, a relationship would make it more difficult. Why to you want to talk to him? To make you feel better? He is not interested. Make peace with yourself and move on. Forgive yourself ...we all make mistakes. We have all cheated in the past ..even if it was just 1x. You need to leave him and his friend(s) alone.
How do I stop being a Market America Distributor?
I signed up to be a distributor to get the Isotonix products at cost because I used so much of them. But now they changed their requirements so I have to buy more crap I don't want, so it's not worth it. Mysteriously, (eye roll) the person who brought me in will not answer my emails asking how I stop being a distributor. Anyone know how to do this? I'd like to get out before my next transfer buy goes through.How do I stop being a Market America Distributor?
http://www.marketamerica.com/blt/index.c
http://www.marketamerica.com/blt/index.c
My brother THINKS he loves this girl? how do i change his mind?
My brother(21) was dating a 16 year old. They dated for a month. Alexis's mom didnt like them dating because the age difference and got a protection order on Kevin. They have 1 month, 2 weeks and 5 days until the protection order is up...No, i didnt sit there and count exactly how long. I signed on msn and i had Alexis on there and her name said ';1 month 2 weeks and 5 days until were together again%26lt;3';
and has changed it every day counting the days...Kevin turned 21 january 1st and there were 3 girls that wanted to go out %26amp; drink with him and he said no, hes not going out with anyone except Lexi...Ive told him hundreds of times, HES STUPID! He dont care. he says he loves her. They never even had sex, theres no way n hell i would wait a year 4 a girl that wouldnt even have sex with me...
How do i get him 2 forget alexis and find someone else?My brother THINKS he loves this girl? how do i change his mind?
His life, his choices. Stay out of it.My brother THINKS he loves this girl? how do i change his mind?
but why wud u want your brother no to love this girl? of you want him to be happy then let him be
whats so bad bout thiss.
Seriously man, don't try and break up a relationship because of what you think. Unless there's a bruised heart or a broken mind, breaking someone up because of YOUR thoughts is one of the ultimately selfish acts.
stop gettin in to ur brothers business? if he loves this girl, then get over urself?..let him be happy? dont ';get him '; to do anythin? he has the right to do what he wants, so stop and concentrate on ur own life:S and jus because they haven had sex doesn mean they cant love eachother%26gt;?..but obviously youre not mature enough to see that, and well good luck in ur relationships if thatsss all u base love on.
believe or not, some guys care about more than sex, and you're right that's a large age difference for now, but once they grow up a bit it won't seem like that much. People feel what people feel, the best thing to do is just to let it play out however it does. believe me my 18 year old sister had sex with a 34 year old man i know what it's like. if you want any other help on anything ever email me at jbruner75@yahoo.com
and has changed it every day counting the days...Kevin turned 21 january 1st and there were 3 girls that wanted to go out %26amp; drink with him and he said no, hes not going out with anyone except Lexi...Ive told him hundreds of times, HES STUPID! He dont care. he says he loves her. They never even had sex, theres no way n hell i would wait a year 4 a girl that wouldnt even have sex with me...
How do i get him 2 forget alexis and find someone else?My brother THINKS he loves this girl? how do i change his mind?
His life, his choices. Stay out of it.My brother THINKS he loves this girl? how do i change his mind?
but why wud u want your brother no to love this girl? of you want him to be happy then let him be
whats so bad bout thiss.
Seriously man, don't try and break up a relationship because of what you think. Unless there's a bruised heart or a broken mind, breaking someone up because of YOUR thoughts is one of the ultimately selfish acts.
stop gettin in to ur brothers business? if he loves this girl, then get over urself?..let him be happy? dont ';get him '; to do anythin? he has the right to do what he wants, so stop and concentrate on ur own life:S and jus because they haven had sex doesn mean they cant love eachother%26gt;?..but obviously youre not mature enough to see that, and well good luck in ur relationships if thatsss all u base love on.
believe or not, some guys care about more than sex, and you're right that's a large age difference for now, but once they grow up a bit it won't seem like that much. People feel what people feel, the best thing to do is just to let it play out however it does. believe me my 18 year old sister had sex with a 34 year old man i know what it's like. if you want any other help on anything ever email me at jbruner75@yahoo.com
How do I erase all old carrier features on prepaid mobile phone?
How do you change the Font Size in a PDF file?
Before you answer, I would like to add that I have been doing research on this for hours it seems...
I am filling out an application that is in PDF form; however, the font size doesn't seem to change and sometimes the font is so large to fit in the fields that it cuts off half the letters I type!
None of the recommendations I've tried worked. Such as using the typewriter tool, going to touch-up text tool(it won't let me select any font size no matter what words I highlight), and the Text box properties(I hit CTRL+E, yet no matter where my cursor is or what I highlight, I get a 'No current selection' dialog box).
Please let me know if I am doing anything wrong.
I use Adobe Acrobat 9.structuretoptr Echo home bedding
I am filling out an application that is in PDF form; however, the font size doesn't seem to change and sometimes the font is so large to fit in the fields that it cuts off half the letters I type!
None of the recommendations I've tried worked. Such as using the typewriter tool, going to touch-up text tool(it won't let me select any font size no matter what words I highlight), and the Text box properties(I hit CTRL+E, yet no matter where my cursor is or what I highlight, I get a 'No current selection' dialog box).
Please let me know if I am doing anything wrong.
I use Adobe Acrobat 9.
How to make change to network as i want.?
My house has modem as well as a wifi router. My computer can acess to internet as well as it give wifi. i can surf internet in my phone, through wifi. and if my computer cant acess internet, my phone cant get wifi too. so how can i make my computer disable to enter internet and my phone to enter to wifi. its ok if u guys tell a nice browser trick also just to disable computer from entering websites..sorry for my bad english. please help.How to make change to network as i want.?
Well, if you turn the internet off on the computer, then you turn it off on the whole house (or one receiver)
Well, if you turn the internet off on the computer, then you turn it off on the whole house (or one receiver)
How can I get a Jessica Tyler (Jenna from Degrassi) look?
Here is a link of a close up photo of her.
http://images4.wikia.nocookie.net/__cb20090901230831/degrassi/images/a/ab/Jenna_1.jpg
I think she is really pretty(: She's just like, freakkin adorable. How can I look like her ?(:
- How should I do my makeup?
- Eyebrowwws?
- Teeth ?(:
- How should I wear/do my hair?
- What kind of clothes should I wear?
i knoow this is in the wrong category, i'm just too lazy to change it, sooorry.
thaannnnkkyouu(:How can I get a Jessica Tyler (Jenna from Degrassi) look?
You should take her picture to the beauty salon and tell them that is how you would like to look .... Go to the Mac store they know how to hook you upHow can I get a Jessica Tyler (Jenna from Degrassi) look?
simple plastic surgery why you think your going to get some fans your self,
http://images4.wikia.nocookie.net/__cb20090901230831/degrassi/images/a/ab/Jenna_1.jpg
I think she is really pretty(: She's just like, freakkin adorable. How can I look like her ?(:
- How should I do my makeup?
- Eyebrowwws?
- Teeth ?(:
- How should I wear/do my hair?
- What kind of clothes should I wear?
i knoow this is in the wrong category, i'm just too lazy to change it, sooorry.
thaannnnkkyouu(:How can I get a Jessica Tyler (Jenna from Degrassi) look?
You should take her picture to the beauty salon and tell them that is how you would like to look .... Go to the Mac store they know how to hook you upHow can I get a Jessica Tyler (Jenna from Degrassi) look?
simple plastic surgery why you think your going to get some fans your self,
How do i get a girl back from a guy exactly like me?
she told me this guy is exactly like me but he is older , and he came like 1 year before i met her . he lives in Texas , her and i live in Florida , i have opened my heart to her and got nothing , she said that i have her compassion (and i am 2nd in her love book) but he has her love...this girl means a lot to me and i wanna know what to do to get her to love me , she is a random person and loves rock and can draw , she wants to become an actress/rock-star when she grows up , she loves adrenaline , but despite her randomness she is very calm and soothing , she never yells at anybody no matter what , she is worth it ,but i need help i don't know what more to do or say , anything to help her change her mind about me is good enough...she says she want to move to Texas back with him , i cant let that happen i have like a a month or less to get her backHow do i get a girl back from a guy exactly like me?
Sorry dude.
';Get'; and ';can't'; and ';have'; really have nothing to do with love. This is just you,trying to stay in control of the situation.......... and if you're in control, it's not love.
For it to be love, it has to be freely given, if you truly do ';love'; her, you'd respect the choice she's made.....him.
Now you know how some other girl feels that's totally infatuated with you, can't have you, because you're focused on someone else.
There is no way, (Not a good or healthy way).
Tell her you care for her, help her pack if she decides to move.
LuckHow do i get a girl back from a guy exactly like me?
You can try to be better.
But look why would you want to take a girl away from a guy who has never done anything to harm or hurt you in any fashion.
I can tell that you already think this girl is the ';one'; but i am positive that you are wrong about that.
You need to understand there are so many people in this world that claiming one person to be your missing piece when she obviously doesn't feel the same for you is the same as chasing cars.
Don't waste your time chasing this one girl when there is just so many others.
If it is meant to be don't you think she would've got with you instead?
Don't waste your time.
Best of Hopes
-Keith
Sorry dude.
';Get'; and ';can't'; and ';have'; really have nothing to do with love. This is just you,trying to stay in control of the situation.......... and if you're in control, it's not love.
For it to be love, it has to be freely given, if you truly do ';love'; her, you'd respect the choice she's made.....him.
Now you know how some other girl feels that's totally infatuated with you, can't have you, because you're focused on someone else.
There is no way, (Not a good or healthy way).
Tell her you care for her, help her pack if she decides to move.
LuckHow do i get a girl back from a guy exactly like me?
You can try to be better.
But look why would you want to take a girl away from a guy who has never done anything to harm or hurt you in any fashion.
I can tell that you already think this girl is the ';one'; but i am positive that you are wrong about that.
You need to understand there are so many people in this world that claiming one person to be your missing piece when she obviously doesn't feel the same for you is the same as chasing cars.
Don't waste your time chasing this one girl when there is just so many others.
If it is meant to be don't you think she would've got with you instead?
Don't waste your time.
Best of Hopes
-Keith
How to get friendship back?...?
It's a bit of a long story, so why don't I just sum it up with a summaryy ~ :)
I have a lot of friends, and there's 3 in particular who don't like me anymore
because apparently I changed and now am the center of attention.
I don't like it, honestly... and idc what my rep is I just want them back as friends.
but idk what to do.
ideas?
thanks in advance =]How to get friendship back?...?
show them you want them back as friends. Using words wont do anyhting. You can say anyhting you want and they still may not believe you, the only way to prove you want them back is to act on it. They may not believe your words, but they will believe your actions, and see that you are being true and sincere.How to get friendship back?...?
I think these 3 friends you have are jealous of you, I don't think you can do anything to win them back if they are jealous, because they will find some excuse one way or another to make you feel bad. Just always be friendly and nice to them when you see them. They will come around or not, if not don't worry. What you think of yourself is more important than what someone else thinks of you. don't kiss their butts to win them back, just be yourself and friendly.
I have a lot of friends, and there's 3 in particular who don't like me anymore
because apparently I changed and now am the center of attention.
I don't like it, honestly... and idc what my rep is I just want them back as friends.
but idk what to do.
ideas?
thanks in advance =]How to get friendship back?...?
show them you want them back as friends. Using words wont do anyhting. You can say anyhting you want and they still may not believe you, the only way to prove you want them back is to act on it. They may not believe your words, but they will believe your actions, and see that you are being true and sincere.How to get friendship back?...?
I think these 3 friends you have are jealous of you, I don't think you can do anything to win them back if they are jealous, because they will find some excuse one way or another to make you feel bad. Just always be friendly and nice to them when you see them. They will come around or not, if not don't worry. What you think of yourself is more important than what someone else thinks of you. don't kiss their butts to win them back, just be yourself and friendly.
How to change our thinking?
hi all how to control our emotions in case when we hurt?? im having big problem of expecting from my loved ones when they dnt reach my expectations i get hurt i want to change this but how ?? plzz help me with this??Is expecting much care n love from others is wrong??how can i change this attitude??How to change our thinking?
Well..that depends on you... say for example.. how hurt will you feel if nobody answers your question on this forum to your satisfaction...??
Dude..grow up!!
take it in your stride...
Even a power plant works on 30% efficiency...
If you do good 3 times... you might get good in return only once...How to change our thinking?
You must simply accept this reality of life. We can control our actions, thoughts and behaviors. We cannot control or change the actions, beliefs or behaviors of others. We can agree to disagree and still respect others opinions. The only one who will live up to your expectations is yourself and only if you work at it. Live and let live. Expect nothing from others and only greatness from yourself this way you will never be disappointed.
If u cn luv nd care fr urslf it dsnt matter whtr u get much luv n care frm othrs or nt.
you have to change your outlook on life first then things will move on from there
When you know yourself to be complete and perfect and unique because you are spirit you stop seeking externally for things and people to complete you.When you take personal responsibility for who you are you put space around the events that happen in your life, you become more conscious as a human being and when this happens you stop seeking outwardly to make yourself whole. How can others love you if you do not love yourself, to love yourself is not conceited or arrogant it is simply to accept and own all that you are , when you do this you know you will not find who you are in any other, and when you truly know this you will of course have no expectations there, you will be able to love and accept them without seeking yourself in them.
u wanna change ur thinking then u can stop thinking koi tension hi nhi rahegi
Do mediation.WHile mediating ask yourself what you want from society and why
Read some spiritual books
Try not to get involved so deeply
Especially dont expect ,much
It will take time to change but slowly make ur attitude ';I dont care'; until and unless it doesn't damage myself
Its difficult to practice but the day you change u will feel relieved
One more suggestion to try above things
Do Art of Living part one basic course
You will change urself in 6 days
Well..that depends on you... say for example.. how hurt will you feel if nobody answers your question on this forum to your satisfaction...??
Dude..grow up!!
take it in your stride...
Even a power plant works on 30% efficiency...
If you do good 3 times... you might get good in return only once...How to change our thinking?
You must simply accept this reality of life. We can control our actions, thoughts and behaviors. We cannot control or change the actions, beliefs or behaviors of others. We can agree to disagree and still respect others opinions. The only one who will live up to your expectations is yourself and only if you work at it. Live and let live. Expect nothing from others and only greatness from yourself this way you will never be disappointed.
If u cn luv nd care fr urslf it dsnt matter whtr u get much luv n care frm othrs or nt.
you have to change your outlook on life first then things will move on from there
When you know yourself to be complete and perfect and unique because you are spirit you stop seeking externally for things and people to complete you.When you take personal responsibility for who you are you put space around the events that happen in your life, you become more conscious as a human being and when this happens you stop seeking outwardly to make yourself whole. How can others love you if you do not love yourself, to love yourself is not conceited or arrogant it is simply to accept and own all that you are , when you do this you know you will not find who you are in any other, and when you truly know this you will of course have no expectations there, you will be able to love and accept them without seeking yourself in them.
u wanna change ur thinking then u can stop thinking koi tension hi nhi rahegi
Do mediation.WHile mediating ask yourself what you want from society and why
Read some spiritual books
Try not to get involved so deeply
Especially dont expect ,much
It will take time to change but slowly make ur attitude ';I dont care'; until and unless it doesn't damage myself
Its difficult to practice but the day you change u will feel relieved
One more suggestion to try above things
Do Art of Living part one basic course
You will change urself in 6 days
Remote control the on off switch of a pc with a cell phone?
Ok so here is the deal, i got a bunch of old phones left and instead of donating this the garbage i would like to do something fun and semi-usefull with them, so i came up with this;
I would like to use a phone to put my pc on and off; i was thinking if i would use the voltage used by the vibrating function of the phone, put a transistor on it to get the right voltage, and connect this to the power switch, i can just call the phone, wich would than vibrate, change voltage trough the transistor and turn my pc on..
Now ofcourse id have to make sure i only let it ring once, and than hang up other wise, the pc would automatically turn on and than off ( due to keeping the power on button in for a long time) and so on..
My question.. i have no idea what part of a phone runs the little engine that makes it vibrate.. i have no idea what kinda voltage is used to turn on the pc...
Anyone who can help me find this out?
Btw if this works.. ill make a youtube vid, of how to build and post the link so you all can try..
Thanks in advance,
MarcHow to care for a primaloft comforter web development
I would like to use a phone to put my pc on and off; i was thinking if i would use the voltage used by the vibrating function of the phone, put a transistor on it to get the right voltage, and connect this to the power switch, i can just call the phone, wich would than vibrate, change voltage trough the transistor and turn my pc on..
Now ofcourse id have to make sure i only let it ring once, and than hang up other wise, the pc would automatically turn on and than off ( due to keeping the power on button in for a long time) and so on..
My question.. i have no idea what part of a phone runs the little engine that makes it vibrate.. i have no idea what kinda voltage is used to turn on the pc...
Anyone who can help me find this out?
Btw if this works.. ill make a youtube vid, of how to build and post the link so you all can try..
Thanks in advance,
Marc
...change...?
so im in 8th grade... and ive had this friend since 3rd grade. i started to get into him about a year ago, and now hes into me too. but he doesnt really like certain things about me, like i wear guys clothes all the time, little things like that, nothing like who i am or how i act. he wants me to change, and i was kind of considering it before he came in. what should i do?...change...?
If you want to change for him then go for it.
If not then don't, if he truly likes you then he would respect your decisions in regards to the way you dress and not complain.
Understand that if you do change for him then it could lead to him making you change other things and perhaps ruling over what you do.
In the end the decision is yours, if you feel that YOU want to change then go for it. Its no-one elses decision but your own....change...?
don't change for anybody he should like you for EXACTLY who you are.
be who you want. If you want a change of style, then change your style, but do it or yourself, not some guy that will come and go.
I don't think you should have to change for anyone. If you feel you want to dress more girly, do it for yourself because it will make YOU feel good or better about yourself, but do not do it for him or anyone else.
If he likes you he will get over it. Don't change be who you are!
i mean you can try it out for a while but if your not confortable with it you just have to tell him if your not going to like me for who i am then dont like me at all... i mean he really cant like you if your not dressing like YOU! :]]
guy clothes ? what does that have to do with anything?
a lot of girls wear boots and stuff and I find that better than goth
go slow with this and see how much you like him is six months
Dont change for him, change for yourself, your at a critical stage and wearing guy clothes can set you apart from the crowd in highschool. which isnt always bad. if you want to change then do it, let him knopw that he doesnt control you though. if you dont really want to change and your happy with how you are now then dont change. if he decides to not date you because of the way you dress you deserve better, theres always someone that likes you for you.
what do you think - i used to be a tom boy when i was younger. and when i started to like boys / date boys i changed my image - not for them, but just to feel more femine, cause when you are dressed up etc you do feel great and that. i wanted to be able to dress up when i went out.
so go for it if it is what you want only hunnie. When you get that 1st wow of everyone, you will feel great. nothing wrong with wanting to dress more girly as you are a girl.
just do what you want.
8th grade.. is hard to be what your not sure what to be.
Let me put it this way. You will meet so many boys/men before the right one. Stay friends, focus on your future career. Make money, lots of it and enjoy life.
hon, it's better to stay who you are.. if he really likes you then he must accept you absolutely...accepting someone whoever he/she is, whatever she/he is, is just a must for everyone....
you do not have to change just for him.
If you want to change for him then go for it.
If not then don't, if he truly likes you then he would respect your decisions in regards to the way you dress and not complain.
Understand that if you do change for him then it could lead to him making you change other things and perhaps ruling over what you do.
In the end the decision is yours, if you feel that YOU want to change then go for it. Its no-one elses decision but your own....change...?
don't change for anybody he should like you for EXACTLY who you are.
be who you want. If you want a change of style, then change your style, but do it or yourself, not some guy that will come and go.
I don't think you should have to change for anyone. If you feel you want to dress more girly, do it for yourself because it will make YOU feel good or better about yourself, but do not do it for him or anyone else.
If he likes you he will get over it. Don't change be who you are!
i mean you can try it out for a while but if your not confortable with it you just have to tell him if your not going to like me for who i am then dont like me at all... i mean he really cant like you if your not dressing like YOU! :]]
guy clothes ? what does that have to do with anything?
a lot of girls wear boots and stuff and I find that better than goth
go slow with this and see how much you like him is six months
Dont change for him, change for yourself, your at a critical stage and wearing guy clothes can set you apart from the crowd in highschool. which isnt always bad. if you want to change then do it, let him knopw that he doesnt control you though. if you dont really want to change and your happy with how you are now then dont change. if he decides to not date you because of the way you dress you deserve better, theres always someone that likes you for you.
what do you think - i used to be a tom boy when i was younger. and when i started to like boys / date boys i changed my image - not for them, but just to feel more femine, cause when you are dressed up etc you do feel great and that. i wanted to be able to dress up when i went out.
so go for it if it is what you want only hunnie. When you get that 1st wow of everyone, you will feel great. nothing wrong with wanting to dress more girly as you are a girl.
just do what you want.
8th grade.. is hard to be what your not sure what to be.
Let me put it this way. You will meet so many boys/men before the right one. Stay friends, focus on your future career. Make money, lots of it and enjoy life.
hon, it's better to stay who you are.. if he really likes you then he must accept you absolutely...accepting someone whoever he/she is, whatever she/he is, is just a must for everyone....
you do not have to change just for him.
Losing A Lot Of Weight ...............?
I'm a 15 year old guy and i weigh 227 pounds (103 kg). i''m about 5'10 or 5'11, not sure. at school people don't really make fun of me or anything, but that doesn't mean it don't happen. i feel embarrassed when changing for practical P.D.H.P.E in front of the other guys. i always make excuses to get out of school things, like athletics carnivals, swimming carnival and cross country. i'm not very social out of school, and don't get out of the house at all really.i play the xbox a fair bit and watch tv a bit too.i wouldn't even go to my friends birthday party because they where going to use the pool .i need and want to lose weight bad. i want to lose about 100 pounds really fast, maybe 2 in months or in the least amount of time possible. i eat a lot of junk food and drink a lot of soft drink, which i think i can cut down on with some effort. I need to know a good diet plan that's fast and easy, and any tips on the eating would also be great. If no good advice I plan to exercise in cardio and light weight lifting regularly along with eating less and eating heathlier. If this is not a good plan please tell me another, and if it is how fast do you think i can lose it? i'm only 15 so its unlikely i can get any supplements/shakes and stuff like that. i also have bad stretch marks, an tips of those would be good. i want to know if there is any foods i should stay away from. please help me, if you have used a good diet before that worked, can u tell me. i need to change my lifestyle to a healthly one don't i.Losing A Lot Of Weight ...............?
Do it scientifically. You can't lose 100pounds in 2 months but you could probably lose 25.
Scroll down here http://calculators.hpathy.com/calories-n and you will find a calorie intake calculator. It will tell you how much you need to eat to lose weight.
Then use nutrition info on food packaging and go to nutritiondata.com and you'll find how many calories each food contains.
Do it scientifically. You can't lose 100pounds in 2 months but you could probably lose 25.
Scroll down here http://calculators.hpathy.com/calories-n and you will find a calorie intake calculator. It will tell you how much you need to eat to lose weight.
Then use nutrition info on food packaging and go to nutritiondata.com and you'll find how many calories each food contains.
How to get unnbanned from craigslist?
hi i got banned from craigslist for starting arguments all the time in the forums so i changed my ip address and i was able to get back in but then some how i got banned and no matter what i do i cant get back in does anyone have any ideas? i tried using hide my ip and that worked but then a little bit later i got blocked againHow to get unnbanned from craigslist?
Only the site admin can unban you
And using IP hiders is so lame..they can still find youHow to get unnbanned from craigslist?
Stop being a troll and maybe someone will like you.
Talk to the admin/ moderators of the website.
Only the site admin can unban you
And using IP hiders is so lame..they can still find youHow to get unnbanned from craigslist?
Stop being a troll and maybe someone will like you.
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Change!!!!?
Ok so my boyfriend of 2 years and i broke up about a month ago. some of it was my fault some of it was his. but w/e its in the past. I want a whole new me, but i dont know how to go about it. I just, want a change. I want to cut my hair get a new wardrobe, and start over. any suggestions?Change!!!!?
I'm sorry to hear about you and your bf. Same here, my bf of 5 years left the country permanently, so I kinda know what you're going through too :(
Getting a new haircut is a great idea! Ask a stylist to suggest a cut that would complement your face. You might also want to get highlights to brighten up your hair while you're at it :)
When you go out shopping, pick out pieces that catches your eye and stuff you'd feel confident in. Don't pick out stuff you usually wear. I love girly dresses that I layer over thermals for the cold weather. Stock up on jackets and colorful scarves too if the weather is getting cold in your place!Change!!!!?
yes, yes...but do you REALLY wanna change? or are you just like depressed and sick of yourself?
dye your hair, do something spontaneous. go buy something you;d never buy in amilliopn years and show it off, just go party hard and live life lik,e nothing happened.
well I would say that you need to decide what type of life you want. if its just about how you look then get a make over but if you want to focus on the inside consider religion.. God specifically ; ) depending where you go church people can be good to date and to be friends with ;)
that could get expensive. Yes change your hair thats all it takes to make a person feel change. Buy a few new clothes and experiment. Its fun and not so bad on the wallet. Good luck best wishes.
try not to think of him...... if you think getting a new haircut will change your personilatity go for it but i suggest you hanging out with your friends more since you dont have your boyfriend with you
don't make a drastic change otherwise, people may not see the real you through it. Try to look up hairstyles on the Internet to see what fits you the best. After that, take a few friends with you to a mall and try on clothes. What used to look good on you may not anymore. Make sure you try them on! New hairstyles can mess with the versatility of combinations.
You can change your physical appearance but that doesn't really change who you are unless you just want a different look.
You have to know what exactly about yourself you want to change before it can happen.
change is good, it shows your going to be in a different part of your life!
get some layers maybe, like an edge cut. dye your hair the color you always wanted to be even if you thought you couldnt pull it off. go out a buy new makeup to fit the new you. and just be the you you want to be.
change your fashion style to a new theme
i.e. if you dress preppie go bohemian or emo
cut your hair to fit that style
you can find websites that fit your clothing style and then get ideas from the models hair
answer my question
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?
style it your goth bcome preppy preppy become goth go skater just wear comfy stuff all the time
cut your hair this short
http://gimps.de/wettbewerb/displayimage.
http://gimps.de/wettbewerb/displayimage.
shave your head get fat and dress like a tramp, no idea where i got that one from
I'm sorry to hear about you and your bf. Same here, my bf of 5 years left the country permanently, so I kinda know what you're going through too :(
Getting a new haircut is a great idea! Ask a stylist to suggest a cut that would complement your face. You might also want to get highlights to brighten up your hair while you're at it :)
When you go out shopping, pick out pieces that catches your eye and stuff you'd feel confident in. Don't pick out stuff you usually wear. I love girly dresses that I layer over thermals for the cold weather. Stock up on jackets and colorful scarves too if the weather is getting cold in your place!Change!!!!?
yes, yes...but do you REALLY wanna change? or are you just like depressed and sick of yourself?
dye your hair, do something spontaneous. go buy something you;d never buy in amilliopn years and show it off, just go party hard and live life lik,e nothing happened.
well I would say that you need to decide what type of life you want. if its just about how you look then get a make over but if you want to focus on the inside consider religion.. God specifically ; ) depending where you go church people can be good to date and to be friends with ;)
that could get expensive. Yes change your hair thats all it takes to make a person feel change. Buy a few new clothes and experiment. Its fun and not so bad on the wallet. Good luck best wishes.
try not to think of him...... if you think getting a new haircut will change your personilatity go for it but i suggest you hanging out with your friends more since you dont have your boyfriend with you
don't make a drastic change otherwise, people may not see the real you through it. Try to look up hairstyles on the Internet to see what fits you the best. After that, take a few friends with you to a mall and try on clothes. What used to look good on you may not anymore. Make sure you try them on! New hairstyles can mess with the versatility of combinations.
You can change your physical appearance but that doesn't really change who you are unless you just want a different look.
You have to know what exactly about yourself you want to change before it can happen.
change is good, it shows your going to be in a different part of your life!
get some layers maybe, like an edge cut. dye your hair the color you always wanted to be even if you thought you couldnt pull it off. go out a buy new makeup to fit the new you. and just be the you you want to be.
change your fashion style to a new theme
i.e. if you dress preppie go bohemian or emo
cut your hair to fit that style
you can find websites that fit your clothing style and then get ideas from the models hair
answer my question
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?
style it your goth bcome preppy preppy become goth go skater just wear comfy stuff all the time
cut your hair this short
http://gimps.de/wettbewerb/displayimage.
http://gimps.de/wettbewerb/displayimage.
shave your head get fat and dress like a tramp, no idea where i got that one from
Tuesday, September 13, 2011
How do I prevent foot soreness while working?
The only thing I really dread about going to work is how sore my feet get after a few hours of standing (sometimes after the weekend my feet will get really sore after only 2 hours on the job!) Are there any really effective ways to prevent my feet from being so sore while I work? I have to be there 8 hours a day, and my feet are killing me before my shift is even half over. I have to wear footwear issued by my employer so a change of shoes isnt an option.How do I prevent foot soreness while working?
See a doctor. You may need custom orthodics.How do I prevent foot soreness while working?
drink alot of water. Wear good, comfortable shoes with good soles in them. Maybe also try them doctor scholl's insoles.
well sometimes there is this jell thing that u can slip into your shoes. its supposed to help. maybe drop by your nearest drug store and see if the have them
make sure your posture is good; stand up as straight as you can, and try not to put all of your weight on one foot to ease the pain, it will probably make it worse. also you might try getting orthodics for your shoes.
Have you tried those Dr. Scholl's and/or the Gel inserts into your shoes. You can get them at any grocery or drug store and they could help a lot.
You might consult an orthopedic surgeon. They will determine if your arches turn in or out or if one of your legs is longer than the other.
I wear orthodics and they help tremendously. How about getting shoes a half size larger than you normally get and put some orthodics in them and some of those gel inserts. Make your shoes more comfortable.
See a doctor. You may need custom orthodics.How do I prevent foot soreness while working?
drink alot of water. Wear good, comfortable shoes with good soles in them. Maybe also try them doctor scholl's insoles.
well sometimes there is this jell thing that u can slip into your shoes. its supposed to help. maybe drop by your nearest drug store and see if the have them
make sure your posture is good; stand up as straight as you can, and try not to put all of your weight on one foot to ease the pain, it will probably make it worse. also you might try getting orthodics for your shoes.
Have you tried those Dr. Scholl's and/or the Gel inserts into your shoes. You can get them at any grocery or drug store and they could help a lot.
You might consult an orthopedic surgeon. They will determine if your arches turn in or out or if one of your legs is longer than the other.
I wear orthodics and they help tremendously. How about getting shoes a half size larger than you normally get and put some orthodics in them and some of those gel inserts. Make your shoes more comfortable.
Erection in the locker rooms (male, bisexual)?
I'm 31, a happily married (to a woman) bisexual, and enjoy going to the YMCA for a workout. In the locker room, however, I still get spontaneous erections. It doesn't matter if there is anyone around - undressing and being exposed seems to get me hard. I don't like it, and feel embarrassed utilizing the shower. I get erect even though I feel no sexual attraction to the men that may or may not be present. It sucks! I just want to change and shower!
Does anyone like me have this problem? If so, how do you cope?Erection in the locker rooms (male, bisexual)?
Just cover it up, if you aren't aroused in any way it's probably just an NRB (No reason *****). Everyone gets them, just try not to worry.Erection in the locker rooms (male, bisexual)?
Yeah, don't get worked up about them. Erections can be an involuntary pain. I think the more you stress over them, the more it will happen.
Being bisexual and the environment of the gym and the locker room isn't going to help either. Your subconscious is working over time plus a work out will always give you a endorphins rush.
Could you not wait till you get home for a shower?
Gay and happens for me to. Bring a towel into the cubicle or hang over the top of the shower head away from the water and when u start to get hard, quickly finish the shower and put a towel around you so that it's hidden and can tuck it in against your stomach
Neither myself nor any of my family have any problems with this. We are naturists and during the summer we always vacation to resorts who cater for naturist families. When my children were younger the boys occasional popped a b貌ner, but that was more to do with the random erections that all boys suffer from, rather than the hoards of naked bodies around them.
So I think it is perhaps that you are not used to being naked in public and have built up a bit of a fetish about it, which converts into sexual arousal. If it worries you, don't use an open shower. If there are no individual cubicles, wear a speedo.
normal
DC
pretend you are changing in you bedroom. Close your eyes and just carry on what your doing
Every male, gay, stright, bi WHATEVER gets erections in the locker room.
If you don't like it then take a shower at home. I don't use the locker rooms in the gym anymore. Did that a few times untill I got a couple of those creepy men who seem to like hitting on young men and I was out of there. I run into too many disgusting people in locker rooms. I dress before I go to the gym and shower and change when I get home.
I don't have problems with erections in the locker rooms though. I have gotten them a few times but some men are just turned on by being naked, just that feeling is enough to get an erection.
plus if you go into a locker room and you are constantly worried you are going to get an erection YOU WILL GET ONE. You have to relax and not worry about it, somehow worrying about it makes it happen.
-Connorhow to cut hair networking xp pro
Does anyone like me have this problem? If so, how do you cope?Erection in the locker rooms (male, bisexual)?
Just cover it up, if you aren't aroused in any way it's probably just an NRB (No reason *****). Everyone gets them, just try not to worry.Erection in the locker rooms (male, bisexual)?
Yeah, don't get worked up about them. Erections can be an involuntary pain. I think the more you stress over them, the more it will happen.
Being bisexual and the environment of the gym and the locker room isn't going to help either. Your subconscious is working over time plus a work out will always give you a endorphins rush.
Could you not wait till you get home for a shower?
Gay and happens for me to. Bring a towel into the cubicle or hang over the top of the shower head away from the water and when u start to get hard, quickly finish the shower and put a towel around you so that it's hidden and can tuck it in against your stomach
Neither myself nor any of my family have any problems with this. We are naturists and during the summer we always vacation to resorts who cater for naturist families. When my children were younger the boys occasional popped a b貌ner, but that was more to do with the random erections that all boys suffer from, rather than the hoards of naked bodies around them.
So I think it is perhaps that you are not used to being naked in public and have built up a bit of a fetish about it, which converts into sexual arousal. If it worries you, don't use an open shower. If there are no individual cubicles, wear a speedo.
normal
DC
pretend you are changing in you bedroom. Close your eyes and just carry on what your doing
Every male, gay, stright, bi WHATEVER gets erections in the locker room.
If you don't like it then take a shower at home. I don't use the locker rooms in the gym anymore. Did that a few times untill I got a couple of those creepy men who seem to like hitting on young men and I was out of there. I run into too many disgusting people in locker rooms. I dress before I go to the gym and shower and change when I get home.
I don't have problems with erections in the locker rooms though. I have gotten them a few times but some men are just turned on by being naked, just that feeling is enough to get an erection.
plus if you go into a locker room and you are constantly worried you are going to get an erection YOU WILL GET ONE. You have to relax and not worry about it, somehow worrying about it makes it happen.
-Connor
Can someone come along and shed some light and make my day/night better?
Because it often happens that one person can change my outlook. So, at least try. Thanks in advance... and bear with me. I'll try to make it short...
I'm 18. My hubby is 25. Our daughter is 14 months. His daughter is 4 1/2 years.
His ex hates my guts and her and her friends talk shyt on me all the time.
But she left her daughter for 3 whole months with her mom to go off with some guy in another city.
She still lives with her mom (and dad, sister, nephew, fiance, and 2 other ppl) all 300+ lbs
No job, no aspirations. Gets state assistance and child support.
They let the 4 yr old do basically anything. Eat straight butter. The goo outta glo sticks. You name it.
Now before you start asking about ME, I'll tell you in as short as possible. Found the hubby, fell in love after 2 weeks, engaged at a month, pregnant at 4 months, married a week after that. Pregnancy sucked because of morning sickness I got my ged. Became a SAHM. Never been gone from her for a minute. Don't smoke or drink or party or do drugs. Take care of 100% her like a mother is supposed to. Keep the house spotless. I massage my hubby every day before work. Make him coffee and breakfast. All of it. 100%. And I don't mind, because I know someday I'll get to do me and this is the life I chose and I'm living it. Very well. So I'm not the typical teen mom. I don't even consider myself a teen. It's just a technicality that no one gets.
Anyways. We moved 400 miles away from our home town and have to spend $1500 a month to see his kid for 3 days which he only gets to see her 11 hours of because of her mother who purposely take her out of town the first and last day. My baby and I visit my mother and sister while he sees his kid because we are not welcome there in any way.
I really want to change custody to where I can get to see her too and where she can come stay with us a weekend or a week or something like since she's about to start school-- during the summer, xmas and spring break, and us visit her whenever we can. Ya know? It'd be so much simpler and more accomodating to all. But my hubby thinks there will be too much rivalry between them if she stayed here. And he doesn't want the child support amount to change (since it was put seperately at $500 a month flat in the divorce decree) but I don't think it could since it was agreed upon, I think she would have to appeal it seperately, just as we would have to appeal the visitation.
Plus I am having medical issues with future fertility and I definitely want another child, but we're afraid that if we wait much longer, it won't be possible as cervical, uterine, and/or ovary cancer strikes everyone in our family history before the age of 21. I would want a 100% healthy pregnancy and the only way to ensure that is to do it now, while I'm still healthy. But I'm having second thoughts now because of how little I feel we see him. He is supposed to work 7 days on, 7 days off. But lately, he's been working an extra day set in. So it's 8 on, 6 off. But on top of that, once a month he has to work an extra 3 days making it 11 on, 3 off. Those weeks we don't travel to see her. So on the rare occasion he gets a full 6 days off, it's wonderful. But usually it's 4-5. So once sometimes twice a month we go down there and rent a hotel for 2 nights and stay 3 days. Most of that time he is with her, or otherwise occupied (I don't remember specifics. All I know is he's not with us) or we spend a tiny bit of time together (mnts, zoo, etc) which is nice. But we never really have any time to just be at home. It's always rush rush rush. Plus the 10 hour ride down there (we go at night so it's less traumatic because she loathes car seats). 40 hrs in a truck a month. Wow. That is a lot of wasted time. I hate it.
Plus, at home, I don't have a TX drivers license, because I'm scared to drive in big cities alone. Traffic scares me. I do ok when he is with me, but otherwise, well, I wouldn't know. But I'm braving up and getting one this week, along with a car to call my own.
And he is switching to night shifts permanently so we get him in the afternoon 1-2 hrs when he works.
I very much appreciate your help/advice. What should I do about all this?
Oh and we move once a year. His work migrates. Oilfield.
Would that make us ';unstable'; in court of law?Can someone come along and shed some light and make my day/night better?
Wow. I feel so badly for you. One thing at a time....
First, you and your husband NEED to become a UNITED front and family....this is to validate your marriage to ALL of those people in your lives. AND you need to stand together so that ALL of those people will respect your marriage. Your husband needs to man up and set boundaries to his exes mother and enforce HIS right to see his child.
I can tell you, that it is difficult to ';blend'; a family. Your husband, if he truly wanted to see his child, would....period. He would NOT allow his exes mother to run off with her and commandeer all of his child's time. And that is okay, if he doesn't have his heart in it. I can understand that. Your husband's job and responsibilities are taking a tremendous toll on him. And you.
Secondly, you are NOT superwoman. Stop trying so hard. Be yourself and STOP hiding. Your husband and you need to stop violating the sanctity of your marriage, by basically....living apart. That is just showing the whole world how little you mean to each other. If your husband does not respect his marriage.....why would anyone else? Job or no job. Nothing and no one should be above your spouse. You are supposed to be second ONLY to God. Period. You are not even supposed to be second to his child.
Thirdly, your needs and feelings DO matter. Stop invalidating your needs and making excuses for your husband. He seems like a hard worker and I respect that. But.....your husband should NEVER be visiting anyone, even his child, without you. What do you think that message conveys to others, when he does that? Step up to the plate and announce to all of these people, by action, that you do matter and that you are your husband's wife. And your husband needs to step up to the plate and stand by you....for better and worse, richer and poorer, sickness and in health.
Stop being less important than your husband's past life. He is supposed to be building a future with you and for you and your child.
Nothing else should matter.....No one else should matter.....Period.
God bless you and good luckCan someone come along and shed some light and make my day/night better?
Short answer: no.
You shouldn't care that his ex hates your guts, and her friends talk mess about you. Just look at it as jealousy, because she lost him to you, Married life isn't easy and im sure he might be a little more stressed than you are considering he works a lot and is trying to feed his four year old and support his family. just try to be there for him and you gotta be strong and hope that it will all pay off in the future. A way too make those loathe-able car rides more bearable, try coming up with a game you two can play or you can use it as an opportunity to get closer to each other and make your relationship more stable. Im not sure that would make you guys unstable because people can manipulate that word into many different meanings, but there is a chance that would because it doesnt provide a stable environment for the child. Be optimistic and try to prove yourself as capable of being abole to handle another child even if it is for just a week.
Could you please answer mine
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?
I think you should keep trying for bubs #2, even if things dont work out with ur hubby down the road u seem pretty set on having kids now, as it looks like there wont be another chance later on. As you can see from my question also, I hate the working hours. Its very frustrating. But it puts food on the table and keeps things comfortable which i guess all we can really ask for.. i really think that his ex needs to grow up and pull her finger out her a** and stop being so selfish! definately sit down and talk with ur hubby bout custody over certain periods, he is with you now and you need to express that what limited time you have together shouldnt continually be taken control over by her! it will make her feel as though she still has the control there by the sounds of it. theres children involved, and as you said custody will make things so much easier, it sounds very one sided at the moment. apart from that i cant really think of much else to say, sorry i couldnt be of more help. Good luck hun. xx
I'm 18. My hubby is 25. Our daughter is 14 months. His daughter is 4 1/2 years.
His ex hates my guts and her and her friends talk shyt on me all the time.
But she left her daughter for 3 whole months with her mom to go off with some guy in another city.
She still lives with her mom (and dad, sister, nephew, fiance, and 2 other ppl) all 300+ lbs
No job, no aspirations. Gets state assistance and child support.
They let the 4 yr old do basically anything. Eat straight butter. The goo outta glo sticks. You name it.
Now before you start asking about ME, I'll tell you in as short as possible. Found the hubby, fell in love after 2 weeks, engaged at a month, pregnant at 4 months, married a week after that. Pregnancy sucked because of morning sickness I got my ged. Became a SAHM. Never been gone from her for a minute. Don't smoke or drink or party or do drugs. Take care of 100% her like a mother is supposed to. Keep the house spotless. I massage my hubby every day before work. Make him coffee and breakfast. All of it. 100%. And I don't mind, because I know someday I'll get to do me and this is the life I chose and I'm living it. Very well. So I'm not the typical teen mom. I don't even consider myself a teen. It's just a technicality that no one gets.
Anyways. We moved 400 miles away from our home town and have to spend $1500 a month to see his kid for 3 days which he only gets to see her 11 hours of because of her mother who purposely take her out of town the first and last day. My baby and I visit my mother and sister while he sees his kid because we are not welcome there in any way.
I really want to change custody to where I can get to see her too and where she can come stay with us a weekend or a week or something like since she's about to start school-- during the summer, xmas and spring break, and us visit her whenever we can. Ya know? It'd be so much simpler and more accomodating to all. But my hubby thinks there will be too much rivalry between them if she stayed here. And he doesn't want the child support amount to change (since it was put seperately at $500 a month flat in the divorce decree) but I don't think it could since it was agreed upon, I think she would have to appeal it seperately, just as we would have to appeal the visitation.
Plus I am having medical issues with future fertility and I definitely want another child, but we're afraid that if we wait much longer, it won't be possible as cervical, uterine, and/or ovary cancer strikes everyone in our family history before the age of 21. I would want a 100% healthy pregnancy and the only way to ensure that is to do it now, while I'm still healthy. But I'm having second thoughts now because of how little I feel we see him. He is supposed to work 7 days on, 7 days off. But lately, he's been working an extra day set in. So it's 8 on, 6 off. But on top of that, once a month he has to work an extra 3 days making it 11 on, 3 off. Those weeks we don't travel to see her. So on the rare occasion he gets a full 6 days off, it's wonderful. But usually it's 4-5. So once sometimes twice a month we go down there and rent a hotel for 2 nights and stay 3 days. Most of that time he is with her, or otherwise occupied (I don't remember specifics. All I know is he's not with us) or we spend a tiny bit of time together (mnts, zoo, etc) which is nice. But we never really have any time to just be at home. It's always rush rush rush. Plus the 10 hour ride down there (we go at night so it's less traumatic because she loathes car seats). 40 hrs in a truck a month. Wow. That is a lot of wasted time. I hate it.
Plus, at home, I don't have a TX drivers license, because I'm scared to drive in big cities alone. Traffic scares me. I do ok when he is with me, but otherwise, well, I wouldn't know. But I'm braving up and getting one this week, along with a car to call my own.
And he is switching to night shifts permanently so we get him in the afternoon 1-2 hrs when he works.
I very much appreciate your help/advice. What should I do about all this?
Oh and we move once a year. His work migrates. Oilfield.
Would that make us ';unstable'; in court of law?Can someone come along and shed some light and make my day/night better?
Wow. I feel so badly for you. One thing at a time....
First, you and your husband NEED to become a UNITED front and family....this is to validate your marriage to ALL of those people in your lives. AND you need to stand together so that ALL of those people will respect your marriage. Your husband needs to man up and set boundaries to his exes mother and enforce HIS right to see his child.
I can tell you, that it is difficult to ';blend'; a family. Your husband, if he truly wanted to see his child, would....period. He would NOT allow his exes mother to run off with her and commandeer all of his child's time. And that is okay, if he doesn't have his heart in it. I can understand that. Your husband's job and responsibilities are taking a tremendous toll on him. And you.
Secondly, you are NOT superwoman. Stop trying so hard. Be yourself and STOP hiding. Your husband and you need to stop violating the sanctity of your marriage, by basically....living apart. That is just showing the whole world how little you mean to each other. If your husband does not respect his marriage.....why would anyone else? Job or no job. Nothing and no one should be above your spouse. You are supposed to be second ONLY to God. Period. You are not even supposed to be second to his child.
Thirdly, your needs and feelings DO matter. Stop invalidating your needs and making excuses for your husband. He seems like a hard worker and I respect that. But.....your husband should NEVER be visiting anyone, even his child, without you. What do you think that message conveys to others, when he does that? Step up to the plate and announce to all of these people, by action, that you do matter and that you are your husband's wife. And your husband needs to step up to the plate and stand by you....for better and worse, richer and poorer, sickness and in health.
Stop being less important than your husband's past life. He is supposed to be building a future with you and for you and your child.
Nothing else should matter.....No one else should matter.....Period.
God bless you and good luckCan someone come along and shed some light and make my day/night better?
Short answer: no.
You shouldn't care that his ex hates your guts, and her friends talk mess about you. Just look at it as jealousy, because she lost him to you, Married life isn't easy and im sure he might be a little more stressed than you are considering he works a lot and is trying to feed his four year old and support his family. just try to be there for him and you gotta be strong and hope that it will all pay off in the future. A way too make those loathe-able car rides more bearable, try coming up with a game you two can play or you can use it as an opportunity to get closer to each other and make your relationship more stable. Im not sure that would make you guys unstable because people can manipulate that word into many different meanings, but there is a chance that would because it doesnt provide a stable environment for the child. Be optimistic and try to prove yourself as capable of being abole to handle another child even if it is for just a week.
Could you please answer mine
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?
I think you should keep trying for bubs #2, even if things dont work out with ur hubby down the road u seem pretty set on having kids now, as it looks like there wont be another chance later on. As you can see from my question also, I hate the working hours. Its very frustrating. But it puts food on the table and keeps things comfortable which i guess all we can really ask for.. i really think that his ex needs to grow up and pull her finger out her a** and stop being so selfish! definately sit down and talk with ur hubby bout custody over certain periods, he is with you now and you need to express that what limited time you have together shouldnt continually be taken control over by her! it will make her feel as though she still has the control there by the sounds of it. theres children involved, and as you said custody will make things so much easier, it sounds very one sided at the moment. apart from that i cant really think of much else to say, sorry i couldnt be of more help. Good luck hun. xx
How can i get them to look after there own baby?
my ex boyfriend and his partner and there 5week old son live with me and my kids and bf. they have lived here for 9 weeks and every day they go out and im the one looking after seth (there son) i dont really mind it but it makes it so much harder for me to do my jobs and go out myself. if he cries during the nite im the one having to get up and wake them up to attend to him and alot of the time they dont get up. i bath, feed and change him 99% of the time. i love seth but he is not my child, i have my own 2 kids to raise and a partner to keep happy. how can i get them to clean there act up ad start looking after him? i dont want to be mean to them. she is 22 and he is 26. thanxHow can i get them to look after there own baby?
well, if they loved there child they would take care of it , not lending it to your ex-gf.....they should be the parents not youHow can i get them to look after there own baby?
I had the same problem with my ex-roommate. I finally got to the point where i was like ';ive had enough'; I talked to her about it and she denied everything flipped out at me and left with her child the same day. She is now not letting me see her son, Matthew. I took care of that little boy constantly for four months and I know she doesnt wake up when he cries and shes too lazy to take care of his needs. I made the wrong choice and now I cant help or protect matthew. So just make sure what ever you do, you do it cautiously because i wouldnt want that to happen to you.
What?! I can't even believe that they won't even take care of their own baby.
Your just going to have to confront them about it and tell them how it is. They are in their 20s so they are grown up and they have a 5 week old son. You don't have to be mean, you just have to show them the reality of what they are doing to their baby. Once they see the effect of what they are doing to their child they will be so scared that they will change for the better. Tell them that you aren't going to do all the work forever and hopefully it will convince them more.
I think you should try to sit down and talk to them. what your saying on here let them know that you enjoy loving their child but you have two kids of your own, and its getting difficult for you. start steping back a little, they dont do anything cause they KNOW that you'll do it for them. let them know you'll help a little when they need it, so they dont get the wrong impression. i think steping back a little will help and continue to start cutting down on helping. maybe if you can go out during the day for a couple hours so they'll have to do something, etc. hope this Helps!
WOW IT SOUNDS LIKE THEY SHOULDN'T EVEN HAVE THE BABY AT ALL IF THEY DON'T CARE ABOUT IT. WHY ARE YOU GIVING THEM A FREE RIDE. srry for the caps wasnt looking n not going to retype lol
Why is your ex-boyfriend and his gf living with you?? strange =S
well, if they loved there child they would take care of it , not lending it to your ex-gf.....they should be the parents not youHow can i get them to look after there own baby?
I had the same problem with my ex-roommate. I finally got to the point where i was like ';ive had enough'; I talked to her about it and she denied everything flipped out at me and left with her child the same day. She is now not letting me see her son, Matthew. I took care of that little boy constantly for four months and I know she doesnt wake up when he cries and shes too lazy to take care of his needs. I made the wrong choice and now I cant help or protect matthew. So just make sure what ever you do, you do it cautiously because i wouldnt want that to happen to you.
What?! I can't even believe that they won't even take care of their own baby.
Your just going to have to confront them about it and tell them how it is. They are in their 20s so they are grown up and they have a 5 week old son. You don't have to be mean, you just have to show them the reality of what they are doing to their baby. Once they see the effect of what they are doing to their child they will be so scared that they will change for the better. Tell them that you aren't going to do all the work forever and hopefully it will convince them more.
I think you should try to sit down and talk to them. what your saying on here let them know that you enjoy loving their child but you have two kids of your own, and its getting difficult for you. start steping back a little, they dont do anything cause they KNOW that you'll do it for them. let them know you'll help a little when they need it, so they dont get the wrong impression. i think steping back a little will help and continue to start cutting down on helping. maybe if you can go out during the day for a couple hours so they'll have to do something, etc. hope this Helps!
WOW IT SOUNDS LIKE THEY SHOULDN'T EVEN HAVE THE BABY AT ALL IF THEY DON'T CARE ABOUT IT. WHY ARE YOU GIVING THEM A FREE RIDE. srry for the caps wasnt looking n not going to retype lol
Why is your ex-boyfriend and his gf living with you?? strange =S
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