Confused on my sexuality? If I am gay or bi, how do I change in the Christian point of view?

Well I don't know if I'm Bi, Gay, Straight, or just Straight-Curious?





K well to begin with, I'm a guy. But idk what my sexual orientation is? I'm attracted to men, but that's all. I would think that person looks hot, but the thought of guy to guy kissing just makes me feel sick. Because i know i would never get intimate with a guy. And this doesn't always happen. On some days, i don't feel attracted to men. The second thing is, i don't feel attracted to women, but watching some lesbian action turns me on? And on some days, i do think of banging a chick, but that's not always the case either, because on some days i don't feel attracted to women. I know this sounds confusing but this is why i asked it, give me your opinion on what you think is wrong with me and what might my sexual orientation be? And also if I am bi or gay, this is wrong in the Christian religion so I would like to change, if I end up being gay or bi, how do I change this?Confused on my sexuality? If I am gay or bi, how do I change in the Christian point of view?
be who you are, don't conform to any religion. take truth as the authority, not authority as the truth.Confused on my sexuality? If I am gay or bi, how do I change in the Christian point of view?
You change it by lying about who you really are. You change it by people making your mind their slave.


Sounds easy enough huh?
Seek First Jesus' Kingdom and then He WILL Reveal 'it' to you!! (John 14:6, Acts 4:10-12, Romans 1:18-32, Romans 10:9-13.) I suggest you read these!
It's your behavior - not your orientation - that you need to keep check on. Through continued and judicious self-discipline your feelings will eventually come into line.





Be faithful to God and he will be faithful to you - and bless you with his blessings.
Circumcision cures Homosexuality.
Homosexuality is something you need a healing for from God. Jesus makes all things new for us when we receive Him. He can deliver you from it.
If I were you I'd stay away from ';Christianity';.





It's only going to make you feel like crap about the way you feel and Christians are not going to help you at all.
Look. Being gay is not a sin in the Christian religion. It is the ACT of sex WITHOUT marriage that is considered sin. Don't sleep around, thats all. The two are not mutually exclusive, you know.





The sin is unmarried sex, ANY unmarried sex, regardless of whether you are straight, gay or bi. What pisses me off is these openly gay ministers and priests. Who gave them special permission to break the rules and get away with it? Unmarried sex is unmarried sex. Show some self control and responsibility for crying out loud. (Them, not you).
Everyone's flesh is weak...





The world doesn't exactly have a straight answers for this.





Look, We don't know how badly the devil has messed up our biology...





When Jesus said it is better not to marry if you can avoid it, do so.... he knew what he was talking about...





Look, Jesus would not have said that it was a sin to have a sinful thought, if he did not have a fix for it. That is God for you....





Pray and He'll change it.
First of all..remember that we live in the world. Where pornography, television, and perverted minds have defiled ours. And most of the time it is hard to by pass. SO with that being said...You are straight. You were created to be a man who loves a woman. It obviously makes you sick to see guys kissing each other and you know you'd never be intimate with one because you weren't created for that. The only real answer I can give you for this question is this, which is opinion only: Prayer. Spend as much time in prayer and the word as you can. And don't feel ashamed or different because you've asked this question because many people have those thoughts and they just don't mention it. I think it's great that you're seeking help in that are. Just keep seeking Jesus. Ask him to show you who you are and what you were created for! Don't watch porn especially! That is going to twist your view. Watch what you watch on TV....that takes discipline! Especially when you are enjoying a show.
It has been proven that homosexuality is a chemical imbalance (for lack of a better word) in your brain. (please don't jump on me let me clarify). The hormones in our body are ';attracted to the hormones in the opposite sex's body'; thats how this show I was watching said it. God is an understanding God, he is not going to shun you for being a homosexual. God is no respecter of persons, he loves us all equally. But the Word will help you.
I can't tell you your sexuality, it depends if you can find yourself physically, emotionally, and sexually attracted to a sex. If women exclusively, you're straight. If men exclusively, you're gay. If both, you're bi. To me you sound straight.





Admitting a man's attractiveness doesn't make you gay. I can tell the difference of attractive and unattractive between my friends, who are guys, but I have no romantic or sexual feelings towards them. It's superficial, and seeing the difference doesn't make me gay.





I can't tell you how to deal with your religion either, but a lot of homosexuals I know that are religious say they know that their God will accept them because they've accepted Jesus in to their heart or something. Either way, times are changing, and Christians need to update their views on a lot of different things.


Just be yourself.
I can't really tell you what you are but I'm guessing you're bisexual since you say you are attracted to women. I don't think you'd be asking this question if you were completely straight either. Just because you see a guy that you think is hot that doesn't mean you're gay, bi or str8. Even though some guys don't like to admit when they see a nice looking guy. You know who's attractive and you can recognize a person's beauty without being sexually attracted to them. If you are having sexual and emotional feelings for the same-sex then you are gay or bi. I would also be concerned that you're suppressing those homosexual feelings because you feel they're wrong to have. If you're bisexual or gay. That's who you are there's a lot of gay and bisexual people out there in different religions, cultures and non-believers. I'm not sure how old you are but I think you should learn to live with being who you are. It's not wrong and all you can really do is deny and suppress it if you are gay or bi.
I would say that you're bi, but I am not 100% sure.


Let me set one thing strait though!


God does NOT hate gay's, or bi's. It is NOT a sin to be gay or bi. The sin in homosexuality is acting upon it. Acting upon it means having sex with another guy, kissing another guy, getting married to guy, et cetera, et cetera. And since you say you would never get that intimate with a guy, you would not be acting upon it.





Basically what i'm saying is; It is NOT a sin to be gay, but the sin of homosexuality is acting upon it.





Peace.





P.S. If you would like to talk more about this please feel free to email me at- jeffrey.lifeteen@yahoo.ca