How do i get a girl back from a guy exactly like me?

she told me this guy is exactly like me but he is older , and he came like 1 year before i met her . he lives in Texas , her and i live in Florida , i have opened my heart to her and got nothing , she said that i have her compassion (and i am 2nd in her love book) but he has her love...this girl means a lot to me and i wanna know what to do to get her to love me , she is a random person and loves rock and can draw , she wants to become an actress/rock-star when she grows up , she loves adrenaline , but despite her randomness she is very calm and soothing , she never yells at anybody no matter what , she is worth it ,but i need help i don't know what more to do or say , anything to help her change her mind about me is good enough...she says she want to move to Texas back with him , i cant let that happen i have like a a month or less to get her backHow do i get a girl back from a guy exactly like me?
Sorry dude.



';Get'; and ';can't'; and ';have'; really have nothing to do with love. This is just you,trying to stay in control of the situation.......... and if you're in control, it's not love.



For it to be love, it has to be freely given, if you truly do ';love'; her, you'd respect the choice she's made.....him.





Now you know how some other girl feels that's totally infatuated with you, can't have you, because you're focused on someone else.





There is no way, (Not a good or healthy way).



Tell her you care for her, help her pack if she decides to move.







LuckHow do i get a girl back from a guy exactly like me?
You can try to be better.

But look why would you want to take a girl away from a guy who has never done anything to harm or hurt you in any fashion.

I can tell that you already think this girl is the ';one'; but i am positive that you are wrong about that.

You need to understand there are so many people in this world that claiming one person to be your missing piece when she obviously doesn't feel the same for you is the same as chasing cars.

Don't waste your time chasing this one girl when there is just so many others.

If it is meant to be don't you think she would've got with you instead?

Don't waste your time.

Best of Hopes

-Keith