...change...?

so im in 8th grade... and ive had this friend since 3rd grade. i started to get into him about a year ago, and now hes into me too. but he doesnt really like certain things about me, like i wear guys clothes all the time, little things like that, nothing like who i am or how i act. he wants me to change, and i was kind of considering it before he came in. what should i do?...change...?
If you want to change for him then go for it.



If not then don't, if he truly likes you then he would respect your decisions in regards to the way you dress and not complain.



Understand that if you do change for him then it could lead to him making you change other things and perhaps ruling over what you do.



In the end the decision is yours, if you feel that YOU want to change then go for it. Its no-one elses decision but your own....change...?
don't change for anybody he should like you for EXACTLY who you are.
be who you want. If you want a change of style, then change your style, but do it or yourself, not some guy that will come and go.
I don't think you should have to change for anyone. If you feel you want to dress more girly, do it for yourself because it will make YOU feel good or better about yourself, but do not do it for him or anyone else.
If he likes you he will get over it. Don't change be who you are!
i mean you can try it out for a while but if your not confortable with it you just have to tell him if your not going to like me for who i am then dont like me at all... i mean he really cant like you if your not dressing like YOU! :]]
guy clothes ? what does that have to do with anything?

a lot of girls wear boots and stuff and I find that better than goth

go slow with this and see how much you like him is six months
Dont change for him, change for yourself, your at a critical stage and wearing guy clothes can set you apart from the crowd in highschool. which isnt always bad. if you want to change then do it, let him knopw that he doesnt control you though. if you dont really want to change and your happy with how you are now then dont change. if he decides to not date you because of the way you dress you deserve better, theres always someone that likes you for you.
what do you think - i used to be a tom boy when i was younger. and when i started to like boys / date boys i changed my image - not for them, but just to feel more femine, cause when you are dressed up etc you do feel great and that. i wanted to be able to dress up when i went out.



so go for it if it is what you want only hunnie. When you get that 1st wow of everyone, you will feel great. nothing wrong with wanting to dress more girly as you are a girl.



just do what you want.
8th grade.. is hard to be what your not sure what to be.

Let me put it this way. You will meet so many boys/men before the right one. Stay friends, focus on your future career. Make money, lots of it and enjoy life.
hon, it's better to stay who you are.. if he really likes you then he must accept you absolutely...accepting someone whoever he/she is, whatever she/he is, is just a must for everyone....

you do not have to change just for him.