How to change our thinking?

hi all how to control our emotions in case when we hurt?? im having big problem of expecting from my loved ones when they dnt reach my expectations i get hurt i want to change this but how ?? plzz help me with this??Is expecting much care n love from others is wrong??how can i change this attitude??How to change our thinking?
that's very good that u know that what's there which is bothering you. It gives me an impression that you have attention problem and ven u don't get attention of people around you,u get hurt.right???

look whenever u r in a situation like this try to think from a different perspective...like what cud be d reason that the other person is not responding in the desired manner?? is his/her mind occupied wid some other thoughts? is she/he under some kind of a stress. try to ask them?

always remember that it is not always necessary to express ur loved ones that u love them ..it is an emotion which needs to be felt.. I am sure that ur loved ones were there wid u always in ur thick n thins and this shows how much they care and love you.How to change our thinking?
EVERYTHING DEPENDS ON THE WAY YOU SEE A SITUATION. If you feel that it's really bad, it will be more than bad. but for a change, if you can feel the bad situation is good for you, then it will turn to be the happiest situation. They just depends on the way you see it and handle it.



We have got more things to rejoice than the things we have to mourn about. So, if you are gonna think only about the positive things, life is gonna be a different one. Just be a challenging person who can deal with any sort of situation that comes as a hurdle in your life.



Life is just a miraculous magic. Living this moment itself is a great thing that you have achieved. So, there are more things to be achieved in our life time.



Change your every single moment into your happy memory and that's where the success of magic lies.

Approach your future with full of confidence and a positive outlook and let it give what you deserve!



JUST CHANGE YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARDS WHAT YOU FACE!
To change the thinking we have to approach the issue from different attitudes. For that the approach has to be 1) subjective or 2) objective. Subjective will be always the thoughts from our part and we will be forced think that is correct.Objective approach is a combination of going to the level of the person who had done and the result of the act resulted to me and come to a conclusion that If I am the person who acted. This will help to change the thinking
hi, its short and simple just stay cool this might help!!

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