I really want to have a boyfriend soon but my mom is really strict and would just say no automatically. How do I get her to change her mind?How to get my parents to let me have a boyfriend?
Don't ask them, its your life.How to get my parents to let me have a boyfriend?
Just get a bf. unless she told you no before.
Oh well, dont tell her,
you cant. despite what teenagers think moms know what theyre talking about. shes just trying to protect you from diseases and pregnancy. listen to her and stop trying to grow up so fast, youll regret it later.
ask her why you can't have one and think of why those reasons are invalid. Tell her why they are invalid and she might change her mind. Just have a talk with her about it. Alternatively you could have a boyfriend and just not tell her
why ? is it for religious religions ,thinks you're too young , doesn't trust guys your age , etc ?
Why are you in such a rush to have one??? Start of with friendship and see where it would lead you. If your mum doesn't want you to have a boyfriend it is usually for a good reason. keep your head out of the clouds and into your books because that is what is most important. Hope i helped.
How old are you? If you're under 16 they probably won't because they don't want you to get taken advantage of by horny teenage guys. They want you to be mature first.
tell her that your older now and shes guna have to realize that you need to make decisions for yourself in life, and you need to have the boyfriend experience. say that guys are interested in you and that youd like to go on a date with them and get to know them more. let her know that you wont be getting into doing things like sex or any sexual activity even if you do, DONT tell her lol. keep that to yourself. ask her to meet them and be nice, like you can set up a day where your mom, you and the guy go to a resteraunt and you talk about things and make sure he doesnt say anything stupid, and it makes things less awkward.
hope this helps
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Not so easy. Make sure you understand what's really going on: saying she's really strict and would automatically say no is an assumption. Part of you learning to make your way (and have your voice heard) requires you not to knee-jerk react like this but to be able to talk through the issues.
Is she worried about boyfriends upsetting your schoolwork (making something in the summer a possibility?) Does she not trust teenage guys in general (probably pretty sound...lol...you would need to introduce the guy who doesn't fit the stereotype) Does she know how much grief some guys will put you through (probably...but part of growing up requires you to live the good and the bad...)
It's always better to understand and talk about these things with her than to try to take matters in your own hands and ';rebel';. That is the worst thing to do...and something she deep down does not want for you either. Your mother wants you to be happy too...she may be seeing a little bit further down the road than you right now though which only makes it that much more important for you to understand and discuss. Good luck
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