How can i change her mind about abortion?

Ive been going out with my girlfreind a couple of months now and she recently told me she was pregnant, she says she booked appointment to get abortion, but is unsure about it, but more likely that she will have abortion than wont. I would like her to have the baby, she already has a child from a previous boyfreind.


I dont know what to do or say to convince her to change her mind and keep the baby?How can i change her mind about abortion?
You cannot really force her to keep the baby, but just reassure her that you will stand by her no matter what with this baby and that you will pay and help finance it. If you want this baby, you'll have to take responsibility for her. She may be wanting an abortion, thinking you're not gonna help her if she keeps it...How can i change her mind about abortion?
its up to her.. its her body and no one can make her change her mind.. she is the one in the long run that has to look after the baby not you
This is such a difficult situation. let her know that you will take care of the baby. let her know that you love her. If she really wants to see the face of abortion please look over this website with her.





http://www.abortionno.org/Resources/pict… She would regret it like thousands of other women.


Good Luck.


If worse comes to worse you can go to court and have a restraining order put against her for the baby.
Leave her be..it's her body.
i know when i looked at how babies are aborted, and how they do it, then seeing aborted babies from the google images, it made me really stick to my choice on keeping my child.
Don't speak of the baby as an 'it' whilst you are around her, speak of the baby as a 'he' or a 'she'.


Tell her that the baby sometimes screams in pain during an abortion, whilst it is being wrenched from her womb. Also, tell her that as a mother-to-be, she should be doing everything she can to keep that baby safe, not purposefully kill her own son or daughter. Good luck.
Just tell her how you feel and that you will be there for her. The baby is apart of you too, so I think she should consider what you want. Also a reason she may be wanting an abortion is because the baby may not be yours...so if she does keep him/her you may want to think about a DNA test
She can't force her. But talk to her about how you're feeling. And it depends on your reasons. Do you want to be a good supporting father to this baby, or do you just feel abortion is wrong?





If you want to be a good father talk to her. Tell her you want this. She probably had a bad experience with her last pregnancy and her last boyfriend.





But honestly, can you guys afford this baby? Are you mature enough to handle the responsibility? Try setting your alarm for every two hours, stay up for an 30 mins playing a recording of a crying baby and then go to work in the morning. Babies aren't easy and you should know what you're getting into.
I agree with some of the above comments. All you can really do is assure her that you'll be there, and that having a child with her is something you want. There's nothing that means more to a woman at a time like this then someone that supports her. However, I don't agree that it's only her choice. If she didn't want a child, there should've been precautions taken so that something like this wouldn'tve happened - it's not that hard to get on birth control %26amp; use condoms, that way it's (nearly) impossible for this to happen.
Apparently she's smarter than you.
Bottom line: it's her choice, not yours. What she does about her pregnancy is entirely up to her, and her alone. Her body, her choice. Not yours.





Please, respect her choice and be supportive of her decision, no matter what it may be -- don't try to force her to continue with the pregnancy and keep the baby if she clearly doesn't want to. If you love her, you should be there for and support her decision to have an abortion -- don't try to force her to keep the child against her will. I'm sure she thought long and hard about her decision and feels that this is the best choice for her and her life. If a woman doesn't want to go through with a pregnancy, she shouldn't have to. No one should force a woman to continue with a pregnancy for ANY reason, ever. Pregnancy is a long and often miserable and uncomfortable process (not to mention dangerous and sometimes life-threatening) -- if a woman doesn't want to continue with a pregnancy, then she shouldn't have to. She shouldn't have to spend nine months of her life acting as an incubator for a baby that she doesn't want. She has every right to have an abortion if she feels that an abortion would be the best decision for her and her life.





If she wants to have an abortion, then you should respect that and support her. Abortion is NOT ';murder'; -- it's simply a safe and legal way to end an unwanted pregnancy. Remember, forcing a woman to have a baby that she doesn't want isn't fair to the mother OR the child. If your girlfriend is not ready to have another baby, then please, try to be a good boyfriend and RESPECT that -- don't try to force her to keep the child if she doesn't want to. It could end up ruining her whole life.
Tell her it's YOUR child too. Not just hers! I don't see why so many people are saying it's up to her. I mean it's her body, but she didn't conceive the baby by herself! The father should have a say-so.





show these videos:


(these are mainly about babies that are very well developed.. but it's still may help)


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s_W75zh1j2I%26amp;feature=related


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BYRpIf2F9NA%26amp;feature=related





Sorry you're going through this.. :/
How about you just leave her alone and let her be. Sorry, but this isn't up to you.
I don't care what all this super religious christians, or expectant mothers are telling you, but this is probably the best thing that will happen to you. Think about whether you having a child will benefit society or not. Will you be able to afford private education, private health insurance, medical expenses, college tuition, a safe car, with full coverage auto insurance, a safe home, with renters or home insurance?





Can you afford private tutors, food, etc. If you can't provide these things for this child today, right now, without the american tax payers helping you, then keeping this child is a bad thing.





Respect her decisions, years from now, when you find yourself in a situation where not having this child was to your bennifit, you'll be happy. Right now you'll feel upset for whatever reason, but respect her decision.
Tell her what gruesome things happpen during an abortion.