I am 'picky' & need to 'get over' myself?

so i was with my freinds last night and were talkin about dating.then the topic moved to why i havent had a boyfriend in a long time...they basically told me that i was picky and that i need to get over myself if i wanna date....so i dont know what getting over myself means and where should i start to change my picky ways...i dont know how cos this has been the way i am for a very long time....any views/??help!!I am 'picky' %26amp; need to 'get over' myself?
i have a friend who is pretty similar



as your friends, they are probably pretty right here. you spend a lot of time with them and tell them everything, they see the guys that you go for and the ones that you dont so you should listen to them. my friend is always comlaining about how she has never had a boyfriend (she is 23 by the way) but any time i find a guy she is already bagging him and paying him out and i say ';but i have fun with him'; so whats the problem. she is just so opinionated and sometimes it really grates on me



she will meet guys out but she doesnt give them the time of day and i think she does this to avoid rejection. there is always an excuse why she shouldnt go for them rather than reasons she should. right now she has meet (what seems like) a really nice guy and she is using the excuse that he lives too far away and she is too busy to go and see him. i said to her enough is enough, if you dont put in an effort with this guy (who she likes and he likes her) then you will regret it later and kick yourself for it



my friend can find a fault in anyone, im not saying you are the same but if you are then you just need to let your guard down. why do you think you are picky ? is it because you are scared of rejection too ? or is it because you arent attracted to the guys that you meet ? or do they not meet a certain criteria ?



just go out, if you can have a laugh with a guy and enjoy his company then just take it from there. you dont need to fall in love with them on the first date...



hope that helpsI am 'picky' %26amp; need to 'get over' myself?
Well, do you turn a lot of guys down when they ask you out?



How about you trying being nice to everyone you come in contact with, and the next guy that baths regularly to ask you out you say yes.



You don't have to do anything with him, but just getting out will move you towards not being so picky. You might find that even though this guy doesn't completely resemble your dream guy, that you actually enjoy being with him and you have a good time. Or not, who knows. But you gotta try.
u can date the others to forget him! and if u really can't forget him the just imagine him as ur ex-boygriend! to do that try doing the same things as u did with ur ex.