I am 15 years old and couldn't be happier with who I am as a gay teenager and I could'nt be looking more forward to a fulfilling and happy life being myself with someone I love. The only problem for me right now is that no one knows that I am gay. This is something that I hope to change within the next month or two. One of my good female friends really likes me. I hear from mutual friends that she is wondering why I have not asked her out yet. We do get along very well but no one knows I am gay. She is starting to seem upset with me. She doesen't talk to me as much any more and it really hurts me at times. She probably thinks I am being a jerk or that I am just to afraid to ask her out. It doesen't hurt me so much that I would deny my true self and ask her out, but it definitly upsets me. When I come out, should I come out to her in a special way? Will coming out to her make her feel embarressed? Will she understnad that I am gay and it has nothing to do with her? And that I still want our friendship... Any tips on how to deal with this and how to deal with coming outn to her? Thank you!What to do in this situation... advice?!?
Some girls react very badly so be aware that is a possibility. Try to determine if she is mature enough to share that information with. Is she from a religious family?What to do in this situation... advice?!?
she might think your making the whole thing up in an attempt to save her from hurt feelings, which will only make her mad. i'd suggest coming out to her and everyone else at the same time in the same way.
The only thing I have to say is, go for it.
If she seems to like like you, then she won't mind you coming out to her. Good luck with this! Hope things go well!
well im also 15 yrs old nd im actually in love with this guy who has a pretty girlfriend and plays football now tht sounds impossible for him to like me nd it breaks my heart so much i cry almost everyday but when you do come out you shouldnt be afraid to ask her if she still wants to be friends if she really is a reall friend she will support yu jus like my friend he came out and the whole school knows but everyone of his friends even me still hangs out wit him and treats him normal everyone one of his friends even his guy friends dont care nd he has a boyfriend nd they dont care just remember dont be afraid be confident
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