How to be a girl others want to be around?

I have some friends, girls and guys. No boyfriend and I don't really need one, but it'd be nice if when I liked a guy he'd like me back.

I used to have confidence when I was younger, but then I got to that age where I started crushing on guys. That's when my confidence hit bottom. I've had my share of crushes most of them ended in them teasing me in front of the entire grade and making everyone hate me. Therefore I started forgetting about liking anyone and just going on with things. I try to flirt with guys like in a non slutty way, or being friends with them but guys are never interested in me. EVERY crush I've ever had has refused me, usually in a very rude manner. What's wrong with a nice girl? I'm not pretty or skinny therefore the male population has completely shut me out. I finally had my biggest crush ever about 2 years ago it started and I liked him ever since I had known him forever and he was so nice to me. Then when he found out I liked him, (no is the worst he could say right? WRONG) he specifically told me that he would never waste his time on me ever note the word ever. so yeah, how can I become a more likable person without changing who I am, I want to be me, I just would like for guys not to be such jerks to me.How to be a girl others want to be around?
There is absolutely nothing worng with a nice girl.

theres a difference between nice and shy. Unfortunately, guys pick on shy girls.

Exude confidence. Give people a reason to want to be around you.

Be the center of a conversation, talk about what you're friends are talking about. Crack a joke.

When guys are jerks, dont let it show that it is upsetting you, but don't laugh with them. Merely ignore them. If you can be funny and confident too, that will take the target off of your back.

Guys are geneally jerks, sweetie.

Hope this helps!