How should i react to this? People want to change me?

Basically im an early 16 old guy, I've got a lot of cool friends which is odd for a guy like me, nobody does take me seriously, im really skinny have no muscles and love grunge and gothic music and not just for the ***** statements it brings i love WoW and-games like that i'm a pro graphic artist in my opinion i love games like linerider2 etc: but my family aka: my dad my brother and my dad's sitting on the fence girlfriend want to change me to become a ';stud'; this is mainly because my late 17 year. old brother is the typical lotsa sex a hot girlfriend, ladies man who plays CoD and thinks he's amazing at the guitar when he has a lot to learn. it is true i am a little jealous . but what really pisses me off is that because i haven't been with a girl ever, or gotten wasted at the parties i go to he doesn't think im living, they have forced me to quit my Wow community and stop playing my music in my room, because they listen to the verve or the libertines or other famous sellouts. and they're making fun of me in the making. were are moving soon, we are considerably rich but i don't think that is a problem, my friends are starting to think im a douche because my family forces me to wear fashionable gear when i go out with my friends instead of being who i want to be. i accept that i am a weird gothic nerd friendly guy breed, but i need to stand up for myself and help find myself again, how do i prevent this generic thing swarming my life?? :( xx Thank YouHow should i react to this? People want to change me?
Just tell them to mind their own f-ing business. If you are living on mum and dads money you might want to become a little more independent. I don't know your exact circumstances but if you can get a job then you can buy your own clothes.How should i react to this? People want to change me?
well remember when speaking about this with your family stay calm and respectful and they will hear you better.............you might tell them........i appreciate that you want the best for me and that is why you want me to wear certain things or listen to certain music but whether its a phase or a permanent life choice i am different than you and would like you to love me for me and not who you want me to be...and if they wont listen.........well two years you will be out of their house living by your own rules.......be respectful and understand they are just wanting the best for you and sometimes parents forget they had to find their own way just as you are doing now.............and if your friends are your friends they are going to understand the clothing.......you tell them man look what they want me to wear make a joke of it..............if they don't accept you sorry they were never your friends anyway....good luck...
Well there is nothing wrong with being who you want to be as long as it doesn't hurt anyone else. The solution to your music problem is if that is what you like to listen to then that is fine, but other people in your family may not want to listen to it so maybe turn it down a bit or use an ipod or mp3 player. There is nothing wrong with not getting wasted or having s.e.x as it shows that maybe you are not ready yet and that is perfectly fine. There is no reason to get jealous about your brother as you are your own individual person and there is nothing wrong with that. You should wear what you want to wear etc and your family should understand that. However being in your room a lot may not be a great idea and maybe if you spent some time with them they may understand your individuality.



Good luck and don't change unless you are unhappy with the way you are :)

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