How do you change your reputation to attract the right kind of girls?

im a guy and im getting a bit of a reputation as a player which i kinda like but it means that im not attracting the kind of girls that i want. i don't think that this reputation is all that fair because while i have gotten off with quite a lot of girls at party's i am a nice guy in general and i have always been fatefully in my relationships and i haven't had a lot of relationships. how do i go about changing my reputation so that i attract the right king of girls?How do you change your reputation to attract the right kind of girls?
This is a tough one. Depending on your age, you will have different answers. If you are in high school or college, which I think you are, you should try to lay off the relationships for a while. I know you say you don't date a lot, but you should even stop flirting with girls for a while. If not, try dating girls from out of the area, that people don't know and can't judge. If you date someone from out of town, people don't have the right to tell you you are a ';player';, especially if it is someone who isn't at all a risk. It is important for you to date people who aren't a risk, because with reputations, it is really hard to get them back when you mess up.



I really hope this helps! :)How do you change your reputation to attract the right kind of girls?
Show people that you arent a player... simple as that.. if you believe that you are not that kinda person then it shouldnt be hard to turn the rep. around... you may not realize how your acting and what image and signs that you are sending to girls... so just try and let people know who you really are and be yourself... that way the rep. may be overturned and people will realize you are truly a nice person...

hope it helps :)
The key to being a player is the low kind. Dont make it absolutely obvious your hooking up with everybody cz then yeah people talk. If they make a big deal of it then their imature and have never been to college... To change your rep people need to think your not hooking up with so many people. Over a month or two opinions will change. So either stop hooking up (LOL) or make sure not too many ppl know about it.
I don't want my response to be a lecture so all I am going to say is that you should just walk up to some girl you really like with all your heart and talk to her. You need to show her that you're not exactly the type of guy people say you are. You need to prove the gossipers wrong and show her what a great guy you are. Just be yourself around her and if she doesn't like, then you know she's not interested because you're not her type. It won't be because of your reputation. And if you want, then you could always go up to her and tell her how your reputation is not exactly correct. If you are a great guy, I am sure a girl will fall for you. You just have to wait for the right one that realizes what a great guy you are and believes you and in your relationship! I hope this was helpful and it made sense.