My live in boyfriend and father of my baby treats me wonderfully,but I discovered he's been lying alot the whole time I've been with him. It seems he's been possibly cheating on me with at least one girl and maybe several guys. I got mad, I got calm, I got soothing, I've tried everything to get him to open up but he has denied, denied, denied even when I presented him with very clear evidence and then I just got extremely vague and contradicted himself alot. I can't even get him to admit that hypothetically doing a dude would in future tense be 'CHEATING'. I am not really interested in seeing anyone else, one reason is because he completely satisfies me in a way I never imagined was possible. He keeps hinting and wanting to talk about us getting married. I just don't seem to know how to get him to quit changing the subject off of what I see as a serious roadblock. Seriously, if we can't get the communication flowing about this bs in the here and now, I can't see how we could survive the future. I'm not prejudice, or even that angery at him any more, I'm getting BORED!!! I mean I'm not a professional shrink. The way I see it we're either in it together or not. This isn't broadway and if he wants to pretend he can go play games on someone elses time. I don't have all the patience in the world no matter how much he kisses my rear. There are too many fun things to do other than try to decifer his 'stories'. He seems to get irritated if I try to fill in the gaps or as for clarification when he blatenly contradicts himself. Why would he persist? Why not try to make sense? Why am I putting up with the jerk in disguise?Found Mr. Right, but he's determined to do dudes while keeping me in the dark. What can I do?
Well then he's not Mr. Right.Found Mr. Right, but he's determined to do dudes while keeping me in the dark. What can I do?
Why are you putting up with the jerk in disguise? Probably because you don't think you deserve better and/or you're afraid to break up your family. Well, guess what? You DO deserve a husband who will treat you and your child with genuine respect and love and won't betray your trust. Dump your boyfriend, get tested for STD's (if you haven't already), consult with a lawyer to determine what benefits you're entitled to, get counseling to help you come to terms with your boyfriend's abuse of your trust, and date other guys until you find your TRUE Mr. Right!
Dudette he is ******* a guy!!!! Y the hell r u still with him? Haven't u heard of STI's ????? HE IS BUMMING THE BACKSIDE OF A GUY THEN ******* ANOTHER GAL THEN U!!!!!!!!!! OMG Y THE HELL r U STILL WITH HIM????
There are so many more fish in the sea!!!!!! I no he is father 2 ur kid but do u want ur baby 2 grow up with a jerk as a role model????
Just finish with him please, let him be a man whore and ruin HIS life not yours and your child's
Charley
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Sorry that I was harsh
Well he's isn't really Mr. Right then..
Dump him. He was never who you thought he was and never will be. I can't believe you're even asking. I know you love him, but he doesn't love you.
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