We (don't ask me how) got in a discussion in AP English when the teacher was gone on who was and who was not a virgin. Out of twenty people, only three were not. It was almost a ';haha, you are a virgin'; shame thing. Is this how society has changed? Is it not desirable now to be a virgin?!? I'm surprised because this is in the Bible belt of the USA, and so many of the non-virgins were devout Cathloics.Has society chanaged where it is not considered desirable to be a virgin?
No ! Be a Virgin they are so rare.Has society chanaged where it is not considered desirable to be a virgin?
To sum it up, yes.
Im a v. and almost all my friends support it. lol I think if I were to find a guy whos kept his v card I'd be dam DAM lucky!
well obviously your school is full of sex fiends lmao
there are alot more virgins then you can think of it just so happens alot of them in your school aren't . its the new way and thought coming back women are tired of being used and this is the way dont' have sex tillmarriage. the ones that do aren't sorry and therefore can't take it back and so they are the problem but they are slowly going to be alone in the world watch
Sex has become so common and a lot less taboo than it used to be, this means that there are a lot less virgins as people are losing it at a much younger age. Because of the lack of them it becomes a numbers game - meaning there are a lot more non-virgins than virgins. So basically because there are more of them, they can make the virgins seem outcast. It goes with most things, the majority always gets their way.
Seriously...nevermind what society or your classmates think of virginity. It's ALWAYS best to wait a while. So many teenagers think they're mature enough to have sex but they aren't. They get pregnant, end up with STDs and complicate their relationships.
Everything today is fast...food, internet, service, etc and relationships tend to be this way as well. The truth is, sex is a big deal and virginity is something that can never be retrieved once it's given away.
To answer your question...yes society has changed and will continue to do so and it will be your choice to remain true to yourself and your own truth despite what your peers think. It's fine to be a virgin, in fact, I'd be proud NOT to folow a pack of kids who don't know what they're doing to begin with.
I'm not so sure on society but peer pressure is as it always has been. The desire to feel ';accepted'; and ';apart'; of something rather than to be the outcast. With added pressure comming from the media where ';sex sells'; people are more likely to succome to it and even with only one partner ';do it'; just so they can say that they've experienced it and are no longer a virgin. Then they have the added chance to join in conversations that include the details of how it felt and even what condoms to use. (flavored vs. glow in the dark) Conversations they would otherwise never be able to join in if they were virgins.
Then you get into specifics of pressure on gender. With certain circle of friends, guys can get into competitions of how many cherries they've ';popped';. Well, if you have 10 guys and 10 girls and one guy has already taken the virginity of 5 women, there's your problem. Then in some cases I've heard where some women are in such dangerous locations/schools that they've chosen to lose their virginity before it's ';taken'; from them.
You're right society has changed, whether or not it's for the better we have yet to see. One thing is certain, you cannot call someone a devout if they choose to go against their own beliefs, reguardless of the reason.
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