Ok so my boyfriend of 2 years and i broke up about a month ago. some of it was my fault some of it was his. but w/e its in the past. I want a whole new me, but i dont know how to go about it. I just, want a change. I want to cut my hair get a new wardrobe, and start over. any suggestions?Change!!!!?
I'm sorry to hear about you and your bf. Same here, my bf of 5 years left the country permanently, so I kinda know what you're going through too :(
Getting a new haircut is a great idea! Ask a stylist to suggest a cut that would complement your face. You might also want to get highlights to brighten up your hair while you're at it :)
When you go out shopping, pick out pieces that catches your eye and stuff you'd feel confident in. Don't pick out stuff you usually wear. I love girly dresses that I layer over thermals for the cold weather. Stock up on jackets and colorful scarves too if the weather is getting cold in your place!Change!!!!?
yes, yes...but do you REALLY wanna change? or are you just like depressed and sick of yourself?
dye your hair, do something spontaneous. go buy something you;d never buy in amilliopn years and show it off, just go party hard and live life lik,e nothing happened.
well I would say that you need to decide what type of life you want. if its just about how you look then get a make over but if you want to focus on the inside consider religion.. God specifically ; ) depending where you go church people can be good to date and to be friends with ;)
that could get expensive. Yes change your hair thats all it takes to make a person feel change. Buy a few new clothes and experiment. Its fun and not so bad on the wallet. Good luck best wishes.
try not to think of him...... if you think getting a new haircut will change your personilatity go for it but i suggest you hanging out with your friends more since you dont have your boyfriend with you
don't make a drastic change otherwise, people may not see the real you through it. Try to look up hairstyles on the Internet to see what fits you the best. After that, take a few friends with you to a mall and try on clothes. What used to look good on you may not anymore. Make sure you try them on! New hairstyles can mess with the versatility of combinations.
You can change your physical appearance but that doesn't really change who you are unless you just want a different look.
You have to know what exactly about yourself you want to change before it can happen.
change is good, it shows your going to be in a different part of your life!
get some layers maybe, like an edge cut. dye your hair the color you always wanted to be even if you thought you couldnt pull it off. go out a buy new makeup to fit the new you. and just be the you you want to be.
change your fashion style to a new theme
i.e. if you dress preppie go bohemian or emo
cut your hair to fit that style
you can find websites that fit your clothing style and then get ideas from the models hair
answer my question
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style it your goth bcome preppy preppy become goth go skater just wear comfy stuff all the time
cut your hair this short
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shave your head get fat and dress like a tramp, no idea where i got that one from
Wednesday, September 21, 2011
Tuesday, September 13, 2011
How do I prevent foot soreness while working?
The only thing I really dread about going to work is how sore my feet get after a few hours of standing (sometimes after the weekend my feet will get really sore after only 2 hours on the job!) Are there any really effective ways to prevent my feet from being so sore while I work? I have to be there 8 hours a day, and my feet are killing me before my shift is even half over. I have to wear footwear issued by my employer so a change of shoes isnt an option.How do I prevent foot soreness while working?
See a doctor. You may need custom orthodics.How do I prevent foot soreness while working?
drink alot of water. Wear good, comfortable shoes with good soles in them. Maybe also try them doctor scholl's insoles.
well sometimes there is this jell thing that u can slip into your shoes. its supposed to help. maybe drop by your nearest drug store and see if the have them
make sure your posture is good; stand up as straight as you can, and try not to put all of your weight on one foot to ease the pain, it will probably make it worse. also you might try getting orthodics for your shoes.
Have you tried those Dr. Scholl's and/or the Gel inserts into your shoes. You can get them at any grocery or drug store and they could help a lot.
You might consult an orthopedic surgeon. They will determine if your arches turn in or out or if one of your legs is longer than the other.
I wear orthodics and they help tremendously. How about getting shoes a half size larger than you normally get and put some orthodics in them and some of those gel inserts. Make your shoes more comfortable.
See a doctor. You may need custom orthodics.How do I prevent foot soreness while working?
drink alot of water. Wear good, comfortable shoes with good soles in them. Maybe also try them doctor scholl's insoles.
well sometimes there is this jell thing that u can slip into your shoes. its supposed to help. maybe drop by your nearest drug store and see if the have them
make sure your posture is good; stand up as straight as you can, and try not to put all of your weight on one foot to ease the pain, it will probably make it worse. also you might try getting orthodics for your shoes.
Have you tried those Dr. Scholl's and/or the Gel inserts into your shoes. You can get them at any grocery or drug store and they could help a lot.
You might consult an orthopedic surgeon. They will determine if your arches turn in or out or if one of your legs is longer than the other.
I wear orthodics and they help tremendously. How about getting shoes a half size larger than you normally get and put some orthodics in them and some of those gel inserts. Make your shoes more comfortable.
Erection in the locker rooms (male, bisexual)?
I'm 31, a happily married (to a woman) bisexual, and enjoy going to the YMCA for a workout. In the locker room, however, I still get spontaneous erections. It doesn't matter if there is anyone around - undressing and being exposed seems to get me hard. I don't like it, and feel embarrassed utilizing the shower. I get erect even though I feel no sexual attraction to the men that may or may not be present. It sucks! I just want to change and shower!
Does anyone like me have this problem? If so, how do you cope?Erection in the locker rooms (male, bisexual)?
Just cover it up, if you aren't aroused in any way it's probably just an NRB (No reason *****). Everyone gets them, just try not to worry.Erection in the locker rooms (male, bisexual)?
Yeah, don't get worked up about them. Erections can be an involuntary pain. I think the more you stress over them, the more it will happen.
Being bisexual and the environment of the gym and the locker room isn't going to help either. Your subconscious is working over time plus a work out will always give you a endorphins rush.
Could you not wait till you get home for a shower?
Gay and happens for me to. Bring a towel into the cubicle or hang over the top of the shower head away from the water and when u start to get hard, quickly finish the shower and put a towel around you so that it's hidden and can tuck it in against your stomach
Neither myself nor any of my family have any problems with this. We are naturists and during the summer we always vacation to resorts who cater for naturist families. When my children were younger the boys occasional popped a b貌ner, but that was more to do with the random erections that all boys suffer from, rather than the hoards of naked bodies around them.
So I think it is perhaps that you are not used to being naked in public and have built up a bit of a fetish about it, which converts into sexual arousal. If it worries you, don't use an open shower. If there are no individual cubicles, wear a speedo.
normal
DC
pretend you are changing in you bedroom. Close your eyes and just carry on what your doing
Every male, gay, stright, bi WHATEVER gets erections in the locker room.
If you don't like it then take a shower at home. I don't use the locker rooms in the gym anymore. Did that a few times untill I got a couple of those creepy men who seem to like hitting on young men and I was out of there. I run into too many disgusting people in locker rooms. I dress before I go to the gym and shower and change when I get home.
I don't have problems with erections in the locker rooms though. I have gotten them a few times but some men are just turned on by being naked, just that feeling is enough to get an erection.
plus if you go into a locker room and you are constantly worried you are going to get an erection YOU WILL GET ONE. You have to relax and not worry about it, somehow worrying about it makes it happen.
-Connorhow to cut hair networking xp pro
Does anyone like me have this problem? If so, how do you cope?Erection in the locker rooms (male, bisexual)?
Just cover it up, if you aren't aroused in any way it's probably just an NRB (No reason *****). Everyone gets them, just try not to worry.Erection in the locker rooms (male, bisexual)?
Yeah, don't get worked up about them. Erections can be an involuntary pain. I think the more you stress over them, the more it will happen.
Being bisexual and the environment of the gym and the locker room isn't going to help either. Your subconscious is working over time plus a work out will always give you a endorphins rush.
Could you not wait till you get home for a shower?
Gay and happens for me to. Bring a towel into the cubicle or hang over the top of the shower head away from the water and when u start to get hard, quickly finish the shower and put a towel around you so that it's hidden and can tuck it in against your stomach
Neither myself nor any of my family have any problems with this. We are naturists and during the summer we always vacation to resorts who cater for naturist families. When my children were younger the boys occasional popped a b貌ner, but that was more to do with the random erections that all boys suffer from, rather than the hoards of naked bodies around them.
So I think it is perhaps that you are not used to being naked in public and have built up a bit of a fetish about it, which converts into sexual arousal. If it worries you, don't use an open shower. If there are no individual cubicles, wear a speedo.
normal
DC
pretend you are changing in you bedroom. Close your eyes and just carry on what your doing
Every male, gay, stright, bi WHATEVER gets erections in the locker room.
If you don't like it then take a shower at home. I don't use the locker rooms in the gym anymore. Did that a few times untill I got a couple of those creepy men who seem to like hitting on young men and I was out of there. I run into too many disgusting people in locker rooms. I dress before I go to the gym and shower and change when I get home.
I don't have problems with erections in the locker rooms though. I have gotten them a few times but some men are just turned on by being naked, just that feeling is enough to get an erection.
plus if you go into a locker room and you are constantly worried you are going to get an erection YOU WILL GET ONE. You have to relax and not worry about it, somehow worrying about it makes it happen.
-Connor
Can someone come along and shed some light and make my day/night better?
Because it often happens that one person can change my outlook. So, at least try. Thanks in advance... and bear with me. I'll try to make it short...
I'm 18. My hubby is 25. Our daughter is 14 months. His daughter is 4 1/2 years.
His ex hates my guts and her and her friends talk shyt on me all the time.
But she left her daughter for 3 whole months with her mom to go off with some guy in another city.
She still lives with her mom (and dad, sister, nephew, fiance, and 2 other ppl) all 300+ lbs
No job, no aspirations. Gets state assistance and child support.
They let the 4 yr old do basically anything. Eat straight butter. The goo outta glo sticks. You name it.
Now before you start asking about ME, I'll tell you in as short as possible. Found the hubby, fell in love after 2 weeks, engaged at a month, pregnant at 4 months, married a week after that. Pregnancy sucked because of morning sickness I got my ged. Became a SAHM. Never been gone from her for a minute. Don't smoke or drink or party or do drugs. Take care of 100% her like a mother is supposed to. Keep the house spotless. I massage my hubby every day before work. Make him coffee and breakfast. All of it. 100%. And I don't mind, because I know someday I'll get to do me and this is the life I chose and I'm living it. Very well. So I'm not the typical teen mom. I don't even consider myself a teen. It's just a technicality that no one gets.
Anyways. We moved 400 miles away from our home town and have to spend $1500 a month to see his kid for 3 days which he only gets to see her 11 hours of because of her mother who purposely take her out of town the first and last day. My baby and I visit my mother and sister while he sees his kid because we are not welcome there in any way.
I really want to change custody to where I can get to see her too and where she can come stay with us a weekend or a week or something like since she's about to start school-- during the summer, xmas and spring break, and us visit her whenever we can. Ya know? It'd be so much simpler and more accomodating to all. But my hubby thinks there will be too much rivalry between them if she stayed here. And he doesn't want the child support amount to change (since it was put seperately at $500 a month flat in the divorce decree) but I don't think it could since it was agreed upon, I think she would have to appeal it seperately, just as we would have to appeal the visitation.
Plus I am having medical issues with future fertility and I definitely want another child, but we're afraid that if we wait much longer, it won't be possible as cervical, uterine, and/or ovary cancer strikes everyone in our family history before the age of 21. I would want a 100% healthy pregnancy and the only way to ensure that is to do it now, while I'm still healthy. But I'm having second thoughts now because of how little I feel we see him. He is supposed to work 7 days on, 7 days off. But lately, he's been working an extra day set in. So it's 8 on, 6 off. But on top of that, once a month he has to work an extra 3 days making it 11 on, 3 off. Those weeks we don't travel to see her. So on the rare occasion he gets a full 6 days off, it's wonderful. But usually it's 4-5. So once sometimes twice a month we go down there and rent a hotel for 2 nights and stay 3 days. Most of that time he is with her, or otherwise occupied (I don't remember specifics. All I know is he's not with us) or we spend a tiny bit of time together (mnts, zoo, etc) which is nice. But we never really have any time to just be at home. It's always rush rush rush. Plus the 10 hour ride down there (we go at night so it's less traumatic because she loathes car seats). 40 hrs in a truck a month. Wow. That is a lot of wasted time. I hate it.
Plus, at home, I don't have a TX drivers license, because I'm scared to drive in big cities alone. Traffic scares me. I do ok when he is with me, but otherwise, well, I wouldn't know. But I'm braving up and getting one this week, along with a car to call my own.
And he is switching to night shifts permanently so we get him in the afternoon 1-2 hrs when he works.
I very much appreciate your help/advice. What should I do about all this?
Oh and we move once a year. His work migrates. Oilfield.
Would that make us ';unstable'; in court of law?Can someone come along and shed some light and make my day/night better?
Wow. I feel so badly for you. One thing at a time....
First, you and your husband NEED to become a UNITED front and family....this is to validate your marriage to ALL of those people in your lives. AND you need to stand together so that ALL of those people will respect your marriage. Your husband needs to man up and set boundaries to his exes mother and enforce HIS right to see his child.
I can tell you, that it is difficult to ';blend'; a family. Your husband, if he truly wanted to see his child, would....period. He would NOT allow his exes mother to run off with her and commandeer all of his child's time. And that is okay, if he doesn't have his heart in it. I can understand that. Your husband's job and responsibilities are taking a tremendous toll on him. And you.
Secondly, you are NOT superwoman. Stop trying so hard. Be yourself and STOP hiding. Your husband and you need to stop violating the sanctity of your marriage, by basically....living apart. That is just showing the whole world how little you mean to each other. If your husband does not respect his marriage.....why would anyone else? Job or no job. Nothing and no one should be above your spouse. You are supposed to be second ONLY to God. Period. You are not even supposed to be second to his child.
Thirdly, your needs and feelings DO matter. Stop invalidating your needs and making excuses for your husband. He seems like a hard worker and I respect that. But.....your husband should NEVER be visiting anyone, even his child, without you. What do you think that message conveys to others, when he does that? Step up to the plate and announce to all of these people, by action, that you do matter and that you are your husband's wife. And your husband needs to step up to the plate and stand by you....for better and worse, richer and poorer, sickness and in health.
Stop being less important than your husband's past life. He is supposed to be building a future with you and for you and your child.
Nothing else should matter.....No one else should matter.....Period.
God bless you and good luckCan someone come along and shed some light and make my day/night better?
Short answer: no.
You shouldn't care that his ex hates your guts, and her friends talk mess about you. Just look at it as jealousy, because she lost him to you, Married life isn't easy and im sure he might be a little more stressed than you are considering he works a lot and is trying to feed his four year old and support his family. just try to be there for him and you gotta be strong and hope that it will all pay off in the future. A way too make those loathe-able car rides more bearable, try coming up with a game you two can play or you can use it as an opportunity to get closer to each other and make your relationship more stable. Im not sure that would make you guys unstable because people can manipulate that word into many different meanings, but there is a chance that would because it doesnt provide a stable environment for the child. Be optimistic and try to prove yourself as capable of being abole to handle another child even if it is for just a week.
Could you please answer mine
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?
I think you should keep trying for bubs #2, even if things dont work out with ur hubby down the road u seem pretty set on having kids now, as it looks like there wont be another chance later on. As you can see from my question also, I hate the working hours. Its very frustrating. But it puts food on the table and keeps things comfortable which i guess all we can really ask for.. i really think that his ex needs to grow up and pull her finger out her a** and stop being so selfish! definately sit down and talk with ur hubby bout custody over certain periods, he is with you now and you need to express that what limited time you have together shouldnt continually be taken control over by her! it will make her feel as though she still has the control there by the sounds of it. theres children involved, and as you said custody will make things so much easier, it sounds very one sided at the moment. apart from that i cant really think of much else to say, sorry i couldnt be of more help. Good luck hun. xx
I'm 18. My hubby is 25. Our daughter is 14 months. His daughter is 4 1/2 years.
His ex hates my guts and her and her friends talk shyt on me all the time.
But she left her daughter for 3 whole months with her mom to go off with some guy in another city.
She still lives with her mom (and dad, sister, nephew, fiance, and 2 other ppl) all 300+ lbs
No job, no aspirations. Gets state assistance and child support.
They let the 4 yr old do basically anything. Eat straight butter. The goo outta glo sticks. You name it.
Now before you start asking about ME, I'll tell you in as short as possible. Found the hubby, fell in love after 2 weeks, engaged at a month, pregnant at 4 months, married a week after that. Pregnancy sucked because of morning sickness I got my ged. Became a SAHM. Never been gone from her for a minute. Don't smoke or drink or party or do drugs. Take care of 100% her like a mother is supposed to. Keep the house spotless. I massage my hubby every day before work. Make him coffee and breakfast. All of it. 100%. And I don't mind, because I know someday I'll get to do me and this is the life I chose and I'm living it. Very well. So I'm not the typical teen mom. I don't even consider myself a teen. It's just a technicality that no one gets.
Anyways. We moved 400 miles away from our home town and have to spend $1500 a month to see his kid for 3 days which he only gets to see her 11 hours of because of her mother who purposely take her out of town the first and last day. My baby and I visit my mother and sister while he sees his kid because we are not welcome there in any way.
I really want to change custody to where I can get to see her too and where she can come stay with us a weekend or a week or something like since she's about to start school-- during the summer, xmas and spring break, and us visit her whenever we can. Ya know? It'd be so much simpler and more accomodating to all. But my hubby thinks there will be too much rivalry between them if she stayed here. And he doesn't want the child support amount to change (since it was put seperately at $500 a month flat in the divorce decree) but I don't think it could since it was agreed upon, I think she would have to appeal it seperately, just as we would have to appeal the visitation.
Plus I am having medical issues with future fertility and I definitely want another child, but we're afraid that if we wait much longer, it won't be possible as cervical, uterine, and/or ovary cancer strikes everyone in our family history before the age of 21. I would want a 100% healthy pregnancy and the only way to ensure that is to do it now, while I'm still healthy. But I'm having second thoughts now because of how little I feel we see him. He is supposed to work 7 days on, 7 days off. But lately, he's been working an extra day set in. So it's 8 on, 6 off. But on top of that, once a month he has to work an extra 3 days making it 11 on, 3 off. Those weeks we don't travel to see her. So on the rare occasion he gets a full 6 days off, it's wonderful. But usually it's 4-5. So once sometimes twice a month we go down there and rent a hotel for 2 nights and stay 3 days. Most of that time he is with her, or otherwise occupied (I don't remember specifics. All I know is he's not with us) or we spend a tiny bit of time together (mnts, zoo, etc) which is nice. But we never really have any time to just be at home. It's always rush rush rush. Plus the 10 hour ride down there (we go at night so it's less traumatic because she loathes car seats). 40 hrs in a truck a month. Wow. That is a lot of wasted time. I hate it.
Plus, at home, I don't have a TX drivers license, because I'm scared to drive in big cities alone. Traffic scares me. I do ok when he is with me, but otherwise, well, I wouldn't know. But I'm braving up and getting one this week, along with a car to call my own.
And he is switching to night shifts permanently so we get him in the afternoon 1-2 hrs when he works.
I very much appreciate your help/advice. What should I do about all this?
Oh and we move once a year. His work migrates. Oilfield.
Would that make us ';unstable'; in court of law?Can someone come along and shed some light and make my day/night better?
Wow. I feel so badly for you. One thing at a time....
First, you and your husband NEED to become a UNITED front and family....this is to validate your marriage to ALL of those people in your lives. AND you need to stand together so that ALL of those people will respect your marriage. Your husband needs to man up and set boundaries to his exes mother and enforce HIS right to see his child.
I can tell you, that it is difficult to ';blend'; a family. Your husband, if he truly wanted to see his child, would....period. He would NOT allow his exes mother to run off with her and commandeer all of his child's time. And that is okay, if he doesn't have his heart in it. I can understand that. Your husband's job and responsibilities are taking a tremendous toll on him. And you.
Secondly, you are NOT superwoman. Stop trying so hard. Be yourself and STOP hiding. Your husband and you need to stop violating the sanctity of your marriage, by basically....living apart. That is just showing the whole world how little you mean to each other. If your husband does not respect his marriage.....why would anyone else? Job or no job. Nothing and no one should be above your spouse. You are supposed to be second ONLY to God. Period. You are not even supposed to be second to his child.
Thirdly, your needs and feelings DO matter. Stop invalidating your needs and making excuses for your husband. He seems like a hard worker and I respect that. But.....your husband should NEVER be visiting anyone, even his child, without you. What do you think that message conveys to others, when he does that? Step up to the plate and announce to all of these people, by action, that you do matter and that you are your husband's wife. And your husband needs to step up to the plate and stand by you....for better and worse, richer and poorer, sickness and in health.
Stop being less important than your husband's past life. He is supposed to be building a future with you and for you and your child.
Nothing else should matter.....No one else should matter.....Period.
God bless you and good luckCan someone come along and shed some light and make my day/night better?
Short answer: no.
You shouldn't care that his ex hates your guts, and her friends talk mess about you. Just look at it as jealousy, because she lost him to you, Married life isn't easy and im sure he might be a little more stressed than you are considering he works a lot and is trying to feed his four year old and support his family. just try to be there for him and you gotta be strong and hope that it will all pay off in the future. A way too make those loathe-able car rides more bearable, try coming up with a game you two can play or you can use it as an opportunity to get closer to each other and make your relationship more stable. Im not sure that would make you guys unstable because people can manipulate that word into many different meanings, but there is a chance that would because it doesnt provide a stable environment for the child. Be optimistic and try to prove yourself as capable of being abole to handle another child even if it is for just a week.
Could you please answer mine
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?
I think you should keep trying for bubs #2, even if things dont work out with ur hubby down the road u seem pretty set on having kids now, as it looks like there wont be another chance later on. As you can see from my question also, I hate the working hours. Its very frustrating. But it puts food on the table and keeps things comfortable which i guess all we can really ask for.. i really think that his ex needs to grow up and pull her finger out her a** and stop being so selfish! definately sit down and talk with ur hubby bout custody over certain periods, he is with you now and you need to express that what limited time you have together shouldnt continually be taken control over by her! it will make her feel as though she still has the control there by the sounds of it. theres children involved, and as you said custody will make things so much easier, it sounds very one sided at the moment. apart from that i cant really think of much else to say, sorry i couldnt be of more help. Good luck hun. xx
How can i get them to look after there own baby?
my ex boyfriend and his partner and there 5week old son live with me and my kids and bf. they have lived here for 9 weeks and every day they go out and im the one looking after seth (there son) i dont really mind it but it makes it so much harder for me to do my jobs and go out myself. if he cries during the nite im the one having to get up and wake them up to attend to him and alot of the time they dont get up. i bath, feed and change him 99% of the time. i love seth but he is not my child, i have my own 2 kids to raise and a partner to keep happy. how can i get them to clean there act up ad start looking after him? i dont want to be mean to them. she is 22 and he is 26. thanxHow can i get them to look after there own baby?
well, if they loved there child they would take care of it , not lending it to your ex-gf.....they should be the parents not youHow can i get them to look after there own baby?
I had the same problem with my ex-roommate. I finally got to the point where i was like ';ive had enough'; I talked to her about it and she denied everything flipped out at me and left with her child the same day. She is now not letting me see her son, Matthew. I took care of that little boy constantly for four months and I know she doesnt wake up when he cries and shes too lazy to take care of his needs. I made the wrong choice and now I cant help or protect matthew. So just make sure what ever you do, you do it cautiously because i wouldnt want that to happen to you.
What?! I can't even believe that they won't even take care of their own baby.
Your just going to have to confront them about it and tell them how it is. They are in their 20s so they are grown up and they have a 5 week old son. You don't have to be mean, you just have to show them the reality of what they are doing to their baby. Once they see the effect of what they are doing to their child they will be so scared that they will change for the better. Tell them that you aren't going to do all the work forever and hopefully it will convince them more.
I think you should try to sit down and talk to them. what your saying on here let them know that you enjoy loving their child but you have two kids of your own, and its getting difficult for you. start steping back a little, they dont do anything cause they KNOW that you'll do it for them. let them know you'll help a little when they need it, so they dont get the wrong impression. i think steping back a little will help and continue to start cutting down on helping. maybe if you can go out during the day for a couple hours so they'll have to do something, etc. hope this Helps!
WOW IT SOUNDS LIKE THEY SHOULDN'T EVEN HAVE THE BABY AT ALL IF THEY DON'T CARE ABOUT IT. WHY ARE YOU GIVING THEM A FREE RIDE. srry for the caps wasnt looking n not going to retype lol
Why is your ex-boyfriend and his gf living with you?? strange =S
well, if they loved there child they would take care of it , not lending it to your ex-gf.....they should be the parents not youHow can i get them to look after there own baby?
I had the same problem with my ex-roommate. I finally got to the point where i was like ';ive had enough'; I talked to her about it and she denied everything flipped out at me and left with her child the same day. She is now not letting me see her son, Matthew. I took care of that little boy constantly for four months and I know she doesnt wake up when he cries and shes too lazy to take care of his needs. I made the wrong choice and now I cant help or protect matthew. So just make sure what ever you do, you do it cautiously because i wouldnt want that to happen to you.
What?! I can't even believe that they won't even take care of their own baby.
Your just going to have to confront them about it and tell them how it is. They are in their 20s so they are grown up and they have a 5 week old son. You don't have to be mean, you just have to show them the reality of what they are doing to their baby. Once they see the effect of what they are doing to their child they will be so scared that they will change for the better. Tell them that you aren't going to do all the work forever and hopefully it will convince them more.
I think you should try to sit down and talk to them. what your saying on here let them know that you enjoy loving their child but you have two kids of your own, and its getting difficult for you. start steping back a little, they dont do anything cause they KNOW that you'll do it for them. let them know you'll help a little when they need it, so they dont get the wrong impression. i think steping back a little will help and continue to start cutting down on helping. maybe if you can go out during the day for a couple hours so they'll have to do something, etc. hope this Helps!
WOW IT SOUNDS LIKE THEY SHOULDN'T EVEN HAVE THE BABY AT ALL IF THEY DON'T CARE ABOUT IT. WHY ARE YOU GIVING THEM A FREE RIDE. srry for the caps wasnt looking n not going to retype lol
Why is your ex-boyfriend and his gf living with you?? strange =S
How to get the Deadly Assassin Outfit?
I got the special edition copy of Red Dead Redemption from Gamestop by preordering and when i typed in the code for the deadly assassin outfit, it shows that it is installed but its not in my outfits menu and when i go to one of my houses to change outfits, its not their either. How can I get the deadly assassin outfit?
P.S. When i entered the code, i entered it as soon as i got to the main menu for the first time without even playing the game first. I think this is why it didn't show up as one of my outfits, but it still hasn't shown up, yet.How to get the Deadly Assassin Outfit?
hmmm, im pretty sure when i was at a buddies house, when he was changing outfits, the ';deadly assassin'; costume showed up, and it had some writing next to it stating that you can unlock it only after beating a certain mission or challenge or something. so yeah, go in the game, check if there is writing on yours or not.
P.S. When i entered the code, i entered it as soon as i got to the main menu for the first time without even playing the game first. I think this is why it didn't show up as one of my outfits, but it still hasn't shown up, yet.How to get the Deadly Assassin Outfit?
hmmm, im pretty sure when i was at a buddies house, when he was changing outfits, the ';deadly assassin'; costume showed up, and it had some writing next to it stating that you can unlock it only after beating a certain mission or challenge or something. so yeah, go in the game, check if there is writing on yours or not.
How should i get my hair layered?
k so im black and i have a perm and my hair is really long!! well i want a change so im getting layers but idk how i should get them! i want to be able to show a picture to the hair stylist so she wont mess up haa so can you plz in include pics? and theres a pics of me so that you know what face shape i have and you can see how long my hair is!(:
http://i914.photobucket.com/albums/ac349/destinyduhh/HPIM1127.jpg
http://i914.photobucket.com/albums/ac349/destinyduhh/HPIM1105.jpg
http://i914.photobucket.com/albums/ac349/destinyduhh/destinywoo.jpgHow should i get my hair layered?
http://media.photobucket.com/image/mileyHow should i get my hair layered?
dont
Nice.... I reckon the mileys hair looks nice.. But just get it trimmed every so and then.. Trust me thats the only thing u need
http://hairstylesbob.com/wp-content/uplo
dont get it layered itll just make ur hair look big and poofy it looks pretty already :)
http://i914.photobucket.com/albums/ac349/destinyduhh/HPIM1127.jpg
http://i914.photobucket.com/albums/ac349/destinyduhh/HPIM1105.jpg
http://i914.photobucket.com/albums/ac349/destinyduhh/destinywoo.jpgHow should i get my hair layered?
http://media.photobucket.com/image/mileyHow should i get my hair layered?
dont
Nice.... I reckon the mileys hair looks nice.. But just get it trimmed every so and then.. Trust me thats the only thing u need
http://hairstylesbob.com/wp-content/uplo
dont get it layered itll just make ur hair look big and poofy it looks pretty already :)
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